Emhlanganweni olindelekile..kungakhathaliseki ukuthi usezingeni lochwepheshe noma lomzwelo..nazi izimpawu zomzimba ezibaluleke kakhulu okufanele uzigweme

Njengoba umhlaba wonke namuhla ukhuluma ngolimi lomzimba..Nansi eminye iminyakazo enokubaluleka ngolimi lomzimba futhi ebaluleke kakhulu kuwena kunoma yimuphi umhlangano, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi usezingeni lebhizinisi noma izinga lomuntu siqu.. Qaphela imizwa yakho ukunyakaza..Noma yikuphi ukuthinta okuncane kungalahlekelwa yilokho okufunayo ngaphandle kokukuzwa:

1- Amehlo aconsa: Ungakwenzi amehlo akho aconse noma acindezeleke. Qala ukuthintana kwamehlo futhi ukugcine njalo
2 - Tshekisa isilevu phansi: Le ndlela ayiholeli nje kuphela ekungakwazini ukuzijwayeza ukuthintana kwamehlo, kodwa futhi iholela ekutheni umuntu abe sesimweni sokuzivikela.
3- Xhawula izandla ngokubandayo: Kusho ukungabi nandaba komunye umuntu.
4- Ukuchoboza izandla uma uxhawula: Ngeke uzuze nganoma iyiphi indlela uma wenza umuntu omxhawulayo azizwe engakhululekile.
5- Ukuququda: ukudlikiza, njengokuzamula, kuyathathelana. Fidget futhi wonke umuntu oseduze nawe uzoqala ukuzizwa ethukile, ekhungathekile futhi efuna ukuhamba.
6- Ukububula: Ukububula kubonisa ukuthi isimo sigubuzelwe ukuphelelwa ithemba.
7- Ukuzamula: dlulisa isithakazelo, hhayi isithukuthezi.
8- Ukunwaya ikhanda: Lokhu kuwuphawu lokukhathazeka.
9- Ukuhlikihla ingemuva lekhanda noma intamo: Lesi isenzo esiveza ukukhungatheka nokuntula isineke.
10- Ukuluma izindebe: Lolu wuphawu oluqinile lokukhathazeka.
11- Ukunciphisa amehlo: isenzo esinamandla esibi, okusho ukungavumi, ukucasuka noma ukucasuka.Mayelana namehlo avaleke ngokuphelele, kusho ukudideka.
12- Ukuphakamisa amashiya: Ungawaphakamisi kakhulu amashiya Lokhu kusho ukungakholwa ngendlela yokuthi awukukholwa okushiwo omunye.
13- Ukubheka omunye umuntu phezulu kwezibuko zakho: Lokhu kusho nokungakholwa.
14- Ukuphambana kwezandla phambi kwesifuba: Lesi simo esivamile siwumyalezo onamandla wokudelela nokuba nomqondo ovalekile, futhi lapho ukuphambana kwezandla kunamandla nangaphezulu, izinga lolaka emyalezweni liyanda.
15- Ukucikica amehlo, izindlebe noma uhlangothi lwekhala: Zonke lezi zimpawu zibonisa ukungazethembi nokungazethembi, futhi ziyizimpawu ezingacekela phansi noma yimuphi umyalezo.

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URyan Sheikh Mohammed