Indlela yokubhekana nomyeni othukuthele futhi oyisicefe

“Ngizizwa ngicindezelekile futhi kuyangibulala.” La mazwi aphindaphindwa amakhosikazi amaningi, ngoba indoda ayinayo indima ekuphileni komkhaya njengoba inkosikazi ifisa.” Kunalokho, indoda ibonakala ingumuntu ocindezeleke kakhulu obangela ukuhwaqabala. endlini lapho nje engena, ukuzola okudabukisayo kunqoba indawo kanye nezakhamuzi zendawo, ngoba Umyeni uphethe izici zenombolo yobuso bakhe "111", okubonisa ukufiphala kwebunzi kanye ne-kosharyah.

Amanye amadoda abheka lokhu njengezinye zezimfuneko zodumo okufanele zibe phakathi kwamalungu omndeni, njengoba ngezinye izikhathi kuba isifanekiso senhlalo esizuzwe njengefa phakathi kobaba namadodana, ukuthi uma indoda yenza lula nomndeni wayo futhi ilethe injabulo kuwo, isithunzi sayo siyalahleka, futhi iwrong idea kodwa isabalele, noma ngabe Imvelo kumuntu, kodwa inkinga ukuthi umfazi uzizwa eyedwa nale ndoda engahlanganyeli naye noma yimuphi umzuzu omnandi, futhi akaboni ukuphila noma yini ngaphandle kwemisebenzi nemithwalo ngaphandle kwanoma yiziphi izikhathi zokuzilibazisa nabantu abasondelene naye kakhulu, futhi lolu hlobo lwabayeni ludinga ubuhlakani lapho kusebenzelana.

Kungakho sibeka izeluleko ezandleni zomfazi ukuze akwazi ukulungisa isimo somyeni wakhe, futhi umkhumbi wokuphila ungaqhubeka nenani elincane lokuphazamiseka:

1- Uma ungathandi ukuthi indlu yakho ihlale imnyama futhi ithule kanje, zifanele ukuthi uzothatha indima yomqalisi kulolu daba, futhi uzosika izimo ezihlekisayo futhi uvule izihloko ezithakazelisayo naye.

2- Qiniseka ukuthi wena nomndeni wakho ninemisebenzi engeyona eyejwayelekile, futhi nizothwala isibopho esiphelele sokukulungiselela lokho, njengokuhlela ipikinikini ekupheleni kwesonto kunoma iyiphi indawo ejabulisayo, nokudlala ndawonye nezingane. .

3- Qaphela ukuthi kukhona izinto ezijwayelekile zokuzilibazisa phakathi kwakho, njengokudweba noma ukuhlobisa okulula, noma ukuthi nobabili nibukele i-TV noma nihlanganyele izingane zenu nibukele amafilimu opopayi, ngokwesibonelo, imisebenzi yezingane ijabulisa ngokwazo, futhi noma ngabe umyeni akahlanganyeli nawe, ukhululeka kanjalo nangabantwana bakho.

4-Qinisekisa ukuthi unabo abantu obaziyo njengezihlobo, abangani noma omakhelwane osondelene nabo, ukuze ukwazi ukuphuma nabo noma ubavakashele futhi uthole injabulo kulokho, ukuze konke ukuzijabulisa kungabi kumyeni wakho kuphela. , ongase akudumaze ngezinye izikhathi futhi kanjalo ahlale ngaphakathi kwesiyingi sokucindezeleka.

5- Zama ngangokunokwenzeka ukuba nabangane bobabili, wena nomyeni wakho, enihlela ukuvakasha komndeni nabo bobabili, ngisho nangezikhathi ezithile, njengoba ukuvakasha okunjalo kushintsha kakhulu endleleni yokuphila kanye nezingxoxo ezivamile.

6- Kumele ube nezinto ozithakaselayo noma ozilibazisayo ozithokozelayo ngenkathi uzilolongela, ngoba lezi zinto azikuphoqi ukuthi ulinde umuntu ozokujabulisa noma alethe intokozo kuwe.

7- Okokugcina, uma ukhungethwe amaqhinga futhi isimilo somyeni wakho yiso esibusayo, kubale lokhu noNkulunkulu. Yebo, kungomunye wemisebenzi yendoda mayelana nomfazi ukumduduza nokumduduza.