Uzisingatha kanjani izingxabano zomshado ngokuhlakanipha?

Izingxabano zomshado azinakugwenywa futhi ziyimvelo kakhulu phakathi kwabayeni, kodwa akufanele senze lokhu kwehluka kube usongo kulo mshado, okuholela ekubhidlikeni kwawo kanye nokubhekana nezinkinga ngobuhlakani.

Izizathu zokuhlanganisa nokukhulisa umehluko:

Ukugxeka okunzima ngendlela elimazayo ngokuhlasela ubuntu bomfazi noma umyeni futhi usebenzise amagama alimazayo (ubugovu, ukungabi nandaba, abanolaka, angikwazi ukuhlala nawe...) esikhundleni sokuveza ukucasuka nje esimweni esithile esiholele emizweni yentukuthelo.

Ukuhlasela ngendlela yokwedelela kuvezwa ngephimbo lezwi noma ukubhuqa ngamagama noma ngesimo sobuso, futhi kungase kufinyelele ekuthukeni, futhi le ndlela izoholela ekuphenduleni kokuzivikela, mhlawumbe okubi kakhulu kunomunye.

Kuvamile ukuba imibhangqwana ihlale icindezelekile ngezikhathi ezithile lapho ingavumelani, kodwa inkinga yangempela yilapho omunye wabashadile enomuzwa wokuthi usefinyelele esigabeni sokuqunjelwa, ngakho ucabanga ngaso sonke isikhathi ngokubi kakhulu. kolunye uhlangothi ukuze konke akwenzayo kube okungalungile futhi zonke izinkinga abahlangabezana nazo ziba Akunakwenzeka ukuyiphatha futhi iqembu ngalinye liqala ukuzihlukanisa komunye, okuholela ekuhlukaniseni ngokwengqondo noma kwangempela.

Izindlela zokusiza ukuxazulula izingxabano:

ـ Ukulalela okuhle nesikhalazo esinenjongo :
Ngokwesibonelo, indoda ingalalela kahle inkinga yomkayo ngaphandle kokubonisa isithukuthezi noma ihlambalaze isikhalazo njengohlobo oluthile lokunaka nobungane, futhi inkosikazi kufanele inciphise ukugxeka nokuhlasela okunonya ebuntwini bomyeni wayo futhi ibonise ukucasuka kwayo kuphela ngesimo ngokwaso.

Ukungagxili ezindabeni ezisusa impi phakathi kwabashadile:
Njengokukhulisa izingane, izindleko zasendlini nemisebenzi yasekhaya, kodwa kunalokho gxila emaphuzwini okuvumelana nokuhambisana phakathi kwawo.

Ukucisha umlilo wempi :
Futhi lelo yikhono lokuzola nokuthulisa omunye umuntu ngokuzwelana nokulalelana okuhle.Lokhu kuholela ethubeni lokufuna indlela yokuxazulula ukungqubuzana ngendlela ephumelelayo hhayi engokomzwelo, futhi ngaleyo ndlela kunqobe zonke izingxabano ezilandelayo. ngenjwayelo.
Ukususa ingqondo yemicabango emibi:

Imicabango emibi enjalo engokomzwelo efana nokuthi (angifanele ukuphathwa okunjalo) ivusa imizwa elimazayo, inkosikazi izizwa sengathi iyizisulu, futhi ukubambelela kule micabango nokuzwa intukuthelo nokuhlazeka kwesithunzi kwenza izinto zibe nzima. Futhi ngosizo lwazo zombili izinhlangothi ngokwazo ekubuyiseleni izimo zengqondo ezinhle ezingqondweni zabo ezidambisa umuzwa wokungabi nabulungisa nokucindezelwa futhi ngaleyo ndlela kuqedwe ukukhishwa kwezahlulelo ezinzima.