Ubhekana kanjani nomkhwenyana wakho uma enemizwa ebandayo?

Ubhekana kanjani nomkhwenyana wakho uma enemizwa ebandayo?

• Kufanele ubhekane naye ngendlela ongavusa ngayo uthando lwakhe ngokungamqhathanisi namuntu.Uma ngabe wawuthembisene umshado, akufanele uqhathanise lowo obukade uthembisene naye nomyeni wakho wamanje, noma ungamqhathanisi nesoka lakho. Intombi noma udadewenu, isibonelo: Wonke umuntu unemvelo yakhe, okumenza abe icala elikhethekile elihlukile kunanoma ubani omunye, futhi kufanele ukugweme kakhulu lokhu kuqhathanisa nomuntu oshade naye.
• Ukuze ube yintandokazi empilweni yakhe futhi angakunaki, kufanele ulalele inkulumo yakhe, ngoba lokhu kukusiza ukuba uqonde umkhwenyana wakho, kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi kufanele uhlakaniphe futhi ube namahloni ngokukhuluma naye. kodwa kufanele usebenzise ubuhlakani bakho ukuze ukhethe isikhathi esifanele sokukhuluma ngesikhathi esisodwa futhi ulalele ngesinye isikhathi ukuze udonse ukunaka kuwe Futhi ungakushalazeli empilweni yakhe futhi ube nesithakazelo kuye.
• Ukuthuthukisa imizwa yothando nothando ngokubonisana imizwa eqotho, kanye nezinkulumo zothando ezisiza abalingani ababili ukuba bazivumelanise futhi bamukele omunye, kanye nesifiso sokuqhubeka naye, lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu ngesikhathi sokuqomisana, futhi indlela ephumelelayo asondeze izinhliziyo zabo, asuse imigoqo phakathi kwabo, azuze uthando nokuzwana phakathi kwabo, ngaphezu kokusiza ngamunye wabo Ekuhloleni ukukhetha kwakhe umlingani wakhe, nokuqinisekisa ukushintshana kwakhe kwemizwa yeqiniso yothando, okuyisisekelo sokuzinza. kanye nempumelelo yobudlelwano bomshado.
• Ukwazi okwengeziwe nokuzama ukumqonda, ingoduso idinga ukwazi ubuntu bomyeni wayo wesikhathi esizayo futhi yazi izici zayo, isimo sengqondo kanye nezinto azithandayo, futhi ngokubuyisela imvumele ukuba asondele kuye futhi amazi kahle, futhi lokhu kwenziwa ngokukhulumisana okuhle naye nokudala inkhulumomphendvulwano ephusile, nengxoxo emnandi phakathi kwabo njalo, nokumbuza ngalezi zindaba, ngaphezu kokuvakasha komndeni Ekhaya, okumenza akwazi ukungena emhlabeni wakhe kabanzi futhi afunde indlela yakhe yokuphila, kanye nethuba lokubuza umndeni wakhe ngaye ngendlela emnandi nengaqondile; Ukuze athole izimpendulo zezinto angambuzanga ngazo.
• Ukuhlanganisa ubudlelwano nomndeni omusha Ingoduso kumele ihloniphe abazali bengoduso yayo kanye namalungu omndeni wayo, isebenzele ukuhlanganisa ubudlelwano nabo, futhi izuze uthando nothando lwabo, njengoba befana nomndeni wayo omusha aba yilungu lawo, ngaphezu kokuletha ibanga phakathi kwabo, nokwandisa ukutuseka kwakhe ngaye lapho ebona uthando lomndeni wakhe ngaye, impatho yakhe enhle nobuntu bakhe Owesifazane onomusa ofanelwe uthando nenhlonipho, futhi ngokubuyisela ubuyisela ukuziphatha okufanayo futhi afune uthole imvume nothando lwabazali bakhe nomndeni.
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