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Ubhekana kanjani nomyeni wakho obandayo ngokomzwelo?

Ubhekana kanjani nomyeni wakho obandayo ngokomzwelo?

“Wayenothando phakathi kwethu nomshado futhi washintsha ngemva komshado,” “Akasangithandi njengakuqala,” “Ngingabuthola kanjani ukufudumala kothando lwakhe?” “

Iningi labesifazane likhala ngabayeni babo ngokubanda kwempilo yabo yemizwa ngemuva komshado kanye noshintsho olukhulu phakathi kwezothando lokuqoma kanye nenqubo yempilo yomshado.

Futhi uqala ukufuna izixazululo futhi uthole izizathu eziholele kulokho, ngakho-ke sizokunikeza ukuthi ngingubani uSalwa lawa macebiso:

  • Kumele uqale ukhumbule ukuthi ukushesha nokuthandana ahlangana naye kwakungeyona inkohliso, kodwa ngemva komshado, asikho isidingo sokwenza umzamo omkhulu wokusondelana nawe, njengenkathi yokuqomisana nokujwayelana, ngakho waba. umbhangqwana oshadile, nobabili nibonisa uthando lwenu ngomunye ngaphandle komzamo noma amazwi.
  • Ngemuva kwesikhathi somshado, umyeni uqala ukujwayela umkakhe ngezici nobuhle bakhe, ngisho nesithakazelo sakhe kuye, futhi yonke into iba ngokwemvelo kuye, ngakho-ke kufanele uhlale uvuselela ngangokunokwenzeka indlela yokuphila ohlala kuyo. nsuku zonke, njengoba kufanele uvuselele ukubukeka kwakho kanye nohlobo lwentshisekelo yakho kukho, ngoba Ukuba nokuziphatha okukodwa kunoma ibuphi ubuhlobo kuyisizathu esibaluleke kakhulu sokwenza kube yisicefe futhi kubanda.

  • Isicelo esiqhubekayo sothando nokunakwa siyacasula, uma ufuna umyeni wakho azizwe enecala ukuze akubonise uthando lwakhe, le ndlela iphikisana, njengoba ikwenza ube buthakathaka futhi ngeke uhlangabezane nomphumela oyifunayo ngemva kwesicelo sakho sokunakwa, futhi lokhu kuzokwenza izinto zibe zimbi kakhulu kuwe, futhi ungase ukubheke lokhu njengenselele nokungabi nandaba nemizwa yakho Veza imizwa yakho ngaphandle kokuncenga imizwa futhi uzame ukumlalela ngokwengeziwe futhi ungamenzi noma yiziphi izinsolo ngokumelene naye njengokuthi: “Awusangithandi. ”, “Uyabanda”, “Awunamizwa”.

  • Sebenzisa amagama akhuthazayo afana nalawa: “Ngiyajabula ngalokho eningenzela kona”, “Ngiyaziqhenya ngomsebenzi wenu”, “Ngiyakuthanda lokhu kuziphatha kwenu”…. , lokho kumshukumisela ukuba ethule ngokwengeziwe imizwelo yakhe kuwe.
  • Uma umbona ebhekene nenkinga futhi engafuni ukukhuluma ngayo, ungamcindezeli ukuthi akhulume, kodwa abone sengathi uzomkhipha esimweni esibi akuso futhi uzomelana naye, lokho kuyomenza azizwe. uphephile futhi uphendukela kuwe kuzo zonke izinkinga zakhe.
  • Qiniseka ukuthi uchitha isikhathi esihle nomyeni wakho njalo ngezimpelasonto ungekho ekhaya futhi ungaxoxi ngezinto ezikhathaza ikhaya, umndeni nomsebenzi, futhi leli yithuba elibalulekile lokukhuluma ngemizwa yakho futhi ngaleyo ndlela ushukumise imizwa yakhe futhi umphoqelele ukuba ayiveze. ngaphandle kokukubuza.
Ubhekana kanjani nomyeni wakho obandayo ngokomzwelo?
  • Zinakekele unomphela, futhi ukhethe izingubo azithandayo, umbala wezinwele awuthandayo, noma upende wezinzipho…. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubanda kangakanani, uyokuqaphela lokho futhi ukwazi ukuthi isithakazelo sakho kuyena kuyoshukumisa imizwa yakhe futhi kumenze akuveze lokho kuwe.
  • Noma ngabe lokho kubonakala kunzima kangakanani noma usufinyelele ezingeni lokuphelelwa yithemba lokumshintsha nokuthi ukubanda kwakhe akunasixazululo, uzowuthola umphumela wemizamo yakho, njengoba nje wawuvusa imizwa yakhe ngaphambili, uyakwazi ukuyivuselela, kodwa kufanele uthole i-catalyst kuphela.
Ubhekana kanjani nomyeni wakho obandayo ngokomzwelo?

 

URyan Sheikh Mohammed

IPhini loMhleli oMkhulu kanye neNhloko yoMnyango Wezobudlelwano, iBachelor of Civil Engineering - Umnyango weTopography - Inyuvesi yaseTishreen Uqeqeshelwe ukuzithuthukisa

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