Ubhekana kanjani nenkani yakhe?

- Ukuthuthukisa ubudlelwano bakhe nalabo abamzungezile: Zama ukuqinisa ubuhlobo bakho naye futhi uqinise ubudlelwano bakhe bokuxhumana nabantu ukuze athole amakhono okukhuluma nokukhulumisana nabanye futhi akwazi ukulalela futhi amukele imibono yabanye.

- Ukungabi nokuphuthuma: Kumele uqaphele ukuthi umuntu onenkani uzonda ukuphuthuma nokucela ngokuphindaphindiwe, ngakho-ke gwema ukuphuthuma ezicelweni zakho uma wenqaba ngoba kwandisa inkani.

Gwema ukumthethisa: Ungamsoli ngezinqumo azithathe eyedwa ebezingalungile nokumenza azizwe ebaluleke kakhulu ukwabelana nawe ngezinqumo.

Yamukele njengoba injalo. Zama ukumamukela njengoba enjalo ngaphandle kokuzama ukuguqula isimo sakhe ngendlela othanda ngayo.

- Khuluma naye ngomoya ophansi nangothando, futhi uzokuphendula, ameseke futhi amkhuthaze kuzo zonke izinyathelo azithathayo

Hlakanipha naye. Ukuziphatha okukhaliphile kubonakala ngokungahlangani nenkani nenkani nokuklabalasa kakhulu noma ngabe lo muntu onenkani ubenephutha, amshiye aze athule yedwa, bese ebuyela kuye futhi ezama ukumbonisa umbono ofanele.

Ukucabangela ukuthi ukuqiniseka ngokombono walo muntu onenkani akusho ukuvumela izimfuneko zakhe nokuzithoba embonweni wakhe, kodwa kunalokho ukuthi ungumuntu obalulekile, futhi lokhu kuholela emzamweni wokumphatha nokususa inkani kuye. naye kanye kuphela, futhi afinyelele umgomo oyifunayo..