Indlela yokunqoba ukucindezeleka nokukhungatheka ngemva kokulahlekelwa umsebenzi?

Ukulahlekelwa umsebenzi akuyona into engabonakali, ukulahlekelwa umsebenzi kumele kubangele izinkinga eziningi zengqondo kanye nezinkinga ezingakuholela ekucindezelekeni nasekuzihlukaniseni, kodwa ubekezele.kodwa yehlisa ijubane , Akukubi kangako, ngokwephephandaba i-Mirror, omunye wochwepheshe bezengqondo ezibaluleke kakhulu, ukulahlekelwa umsebenzi kungase kube isiqalo esingcono, sempilo engcono.

Lapho owesifazane owaphelelwa umsebenzi wathumela khona ephephandabeni laseBrithani, ethi embhalweni walencwadi: “Ngingowesifazane oneminyaka engu-40 ubudala, futhi ngiye ngadumala kakhulu, njengoba ngaphelelwa umsebenzi ngo-October. Angikwazanga ngisho ukuhlanganisa noma yimuphi umdlandla ngoKhisimusi, nakuba umlingani wami nomndeni benza konke okusemandleni abo ukungijabulisa. Ngokwezimali, izinto zihamba kahle; Ngoba umlingani wami unomsebenzi, futhi uyakwazi ukukhokhela izindleko zethu, futhi ngithole imali, ezongizuzisa empilweni yami. Kodwa inkinga iwukuthi, ngangiwuthanda ngempela umsebenzi wami, futhi sengineminyaka ecishe ibe ngu-10 ngilapho. Ngakhe umbuthano wami wokuxhumana nabantu engisebenza nabo, futhi manje ngizizwa ngilahlekile ngokuphelele. Kungathi ngiqala phansi ngineminyaka engu-23, futhi anginakho ukuzethemba. Ngesaba kakhulu ukuzama, ngakho ngisanda kwenza imizamo esuka enhliziyweni yokuthola enye indima kwenye indawo. Ukukhungatheka bengisebenza ngokugcwele kusukela ngineminyaka engu-XNUMX, futhi akukho okunye engikwaziyo. Ngilokhu ngihlengezela izinyembezi ngaphandle kwesizathu, futhi angikwazi ukujabula ngokweqile. Kuyangicasula ukuthi ngishiye umsebenzi, abanye basala. Kuyaphazamisa kimina, njengoba ngivamise ukuzizwa njengomuntu onethemba, kodwa kungiphule ngempela, konakelephi?"

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Ithuba elingcono likulindile !!!!!

UColin, uchwepheshe wesayensi yezokuhlalisana kwabantu, uyaphendula:
“Okokuqala ngithanda ukukutshela ukuthi imizwa yakho ijwayelekile, kuyinto enkulu ukulahlekelwa yinto osube nayo iminyaka ecela kweshumi, ebiyingxenye enkulu yempilo yakho. Usendaweni ongayazi, ehlala isabeka.
Kodwa-ke, ukulahlekelwa umsebenzi wakho kungaba yithuba elihle lokwenza okuthile okusha, futhi uthuthukise impilo yakho ngezindlela eziningi ezahlukene. Kulezi zinsuku, ukuba neminyaka engama-17 kusho ukuthi usemncane, uneminyaka engu-XNUMX yesipiliyoni esihle ongasinika abanye abaqashi.
Kulungile ukuthatha isikhathi uma ungakwazi ukukumela, hhayi nje ukuzakha kabusha ngokwengqondo, kodwa ujabulele ukwenza okufunayo. Kungenzeka ungaphinde ulithole lelo thuba uma usubuyele emsebenzini, futhi angifuni uzisole ngokumosha isikhathi ugxile kodlule.”