Uyikhanga kanjani indoda kuwe?

Umqondo wokukhanga kwabesifazane uyahluka kumuntu ngamunye, ukuze adwebe engqondweni yakhe imininingwane ethile yowesifazane akhangwayo, kodwa kunemiqondo evamile okungekho noyedwa ongavumelani nayo kukho konke ukunambitheka, indawo kanye namasiko, avela kuwe. ukukhanga emehlweni akho kuqala ukuze kubonakale kuwo wonke umuntu oseduze kwakho, sizobona ezinye zalezi zichasiso :

• Ukuziqhelelanisa nesiko: Lokhu kungenye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu uCoco Chanel azisho eselulekweni sakhe sobuhle: “Ubuhle buqala lapho unquma ukuba nguwe.”

Ungashintshi izimfanelo zakho ezinhle futhi ungangenisi ubuzenzisi ebuntwini bakho, ngoba ukuzenzela kanye nobuntu bemvelo kungena ezinhliziyweni zawo wonke umuntu futhi kubenze bazizwe bekhululekile futhi bajabulele ukuba khona kwakho.

• Ubuhle: Ukunaka ukubukeka kwakho nokunakekela ubuhle bakho kubaluleke kakhulu.Ukubukeka okuvamile kunikeza umbono obalulekile wasekuqaleni kanye nombono mayelana nobuntu bakho bubonke.

• Ubuhle bangaphandle bubaluleke kakhulu, kodwa akusiyo yonke into.Ubuhle akubona kuphela into esiyibonayo, kodwa buhlobene nobuhle bakho bangaphakathi, obusuka ekwanelisekeni kwakho, ukuzethemba kuwe kanye nezinga lesiko lakho nobuhlakani bakho.
• Gwema ukuqamba amanga: kufana nesesula kuyo yonke imininingwane emihle yomuntu, mhlawumbe ubone intombi yakho iqamba amanga wacabanga ukuthi inenhlanhla ukudlula amadoda, kodwa empeleni inenhlanhla enkulu ngaphandle kuphela. Ungazami ukuheha abantu indlela yokuzenzisa noma yokuqamba amanga Amehlo angaqambi amanga akhipha ubuhle nokukhanga okungenakuvinjelwa.

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• Ubufazi: Igama elithi ubufazi livame ukuwela emicabangweni yethu esilingweni futhi sizama ukukhombisa uhlangothi locansi kowesifazane kuphela, futhi leli elinye lamaphutha abucayi esingawenza ngoba ubufazi abukho ngesilingo futhi abuhehi muntu ngaphandle kokuthi inhloso ethile. Ngobubele nesizotha ekusebenzelaneni, iphimbo elipholile lezwi kanye namahloni anamandla okuziphatha ngesikhathi esifanayo.

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