Umenza kanjani akuthande.. Izinyathelo eziyi-XNUMX ezimenza athandane nawe ngokuhlanya

Nawa amanye amathiphu amahle akukhombisa ukuthi uheha kanjani indoda kuwe.

XNUMX- Yiba nguwe

Kuyaziwa ukuthi indlela engcono kakhulu yokufinyelela inhliziyo yendoda iwukuba nguwena.Ukwenza sengathi ufuna ukunaka kungase kumenze akuhlukanise, ikakhulukazi njengoba uthando lweqiniso lungase luqhamuke lapho eqala ukukubona.

XNUMX- Ukubukeka kahle:

Uma uthandeka kakhulu, indoda ikuthanda kakhulu. Futhi lokho akusho ukuthenga ithani lezingubo ezintsha. Kodwa vele uzame ukukugqokisa izingubo ezifanele, uhlanganise imibala yazo, futhi uguqule ikamu lakho ngezikhathi ezithile.

XNUMX- Ukulalela kahle:

Abafana bahlala bethanda ukukhuluma ngabo, yiba yisilaleli esihle futhi uzokuthanda kakhulu lapho ezwa ukuthi uyamazisa.

XNUMX- Ukuhleka kakhulu

Ukuba nomuzwa wokuhlekisa kubalulekile ukuheha indoda kuwe. Futhi ehlala ewahleka amahlaya akhe, noma ngabe esekhulile futhi eyisicefe.

XNUMX. Yiba nesimo sengqondo esihle.

Ukujabulela umoya omuhle ogqamile kungenye yezinto eziheha amadoda.Zama njalo ukubheka uhlangothi olukhanyayo lwempilo, “ingilazi igcwele uhhafu” futhi ujabulele izibusiso zakho.

XNUMX. Ukuba muhle

Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi ukudelela kungenye yezimpawu ezimbi kakhulu zowesifazane, ezizomenza akufulathele.

XNUMX- Ukudlala ngothando:

Ukunakekela nokuphatha indoda njengenkosi kuyenza isheshe ikuthande, ikakhulukazi uma ikhuluma nayo.

XNUMX. Ukuhluka

Kufanele ubheke izindlela ezikwenza ube nobuntu obuhlukile nobuqinile phambi kwabantu. Futhi kufanele wehluke kwabanye. Lokhu kumenza akubuke ngokuncoma nangokuziqhenya. Futhi hhayi ukuhlanganisa ezihlokweni zokuhleba. .

XNUMX. Ukuhlakanipha

Wonke umuntu une-charisma yakhe kanye nohlangothi oluhlakaniphile. Futhi ngokungathuli ngesikhathi ekhuluma. Zama ukukhombisa ingxenye yentokozo yakho ngenkathi ubonisa uhlangothi lokuzethemba.

XNUMX. Chitha isikhathi esiningi naye.

Indoda kufanele ikujabulele ukuchitha isikhathi nawe, kuyindlela yakho yokuheha noma iyiphi indoda. Izimanga nezinhlelo zokuzijabulisa, njengokubuka umdlalo webhola, zimenza ahlanye uthando ngawe.

XNUMX- Ukumnika inkululeko eyengeziwe:

Ukukhawulela indoda ekuhambeni kwayo nokuphinda imibuzo efanayo kuyenza izizwe ihlukanisiwe nawe.Kufanele ukwazise futhi uhloniphe indlela indoda echitha ngayo isikhathi nabangane bayo. Futhi nomndeni wakhe, awuhlali ubuza imibuzo mayelana nokuthi ubukuphi nokuthi kungani uphuthelwe yileso sikhathi neminye imibuzo eyisicefe.

XNUMX - Ukuthola ukuthintana kwamehlo:

Igqolozele ijule esweni lendoda ikhuluma isikhathi eside, ithule ihlabe inhliziyo yalendoda.

XNUMX. Engabonakali ephelelwe ithemba.

Indoda ifuna intombazane ezithembayo, yenza indoda ibuke ngenhlonipho.

XNUMX- Ukugcina imfihlo yakhe:

Amadoda amaningi ajabulela imfihlakalo. Ngakho-ke, ukugcina imfihlo yendoda kungenye yezindlela ezibalulekile zokumdonsela kuwena.Uyohlale ecela ukubonana nawe ukuze akhulume nawe. Ngoba uthemba ukuthi ukukhuluma nawe kuzomduduza ngokwengeziwe.

XNUMX- Khuthaza izinto azithandayo:

Amadoda ayabathanda abantu besifazane ababakhuthaza ukuthi bafeze izinhloso zabo. Intshisekelo nokubamba iqhaza ezintweni azithandayo, njengemidlalo yevidiyo nezemidlalo.

XNUMX- Ukumsekela:

Zama njalo ukumeseka kuzo zonke izingxenye zempilo yakhe, ikakhulukazi emsebenzini, noma ngabe uhlobo lomsebenzi wakho luhlukile kunomsebenzi wakhe, ungameseka ngokumsiza avuke ekuseni, isibonelo, emsebenzini, noma ukumlungisela isidlo sasekuseni esikhethekile, kumenza akuthande kakhulu.