Ubenza kanjani abangani bakho babe umthombo wamandla akho?

Noma ubani ochaza ubungane njengokumosha isikhathi nakanjani akulungile, njengoba ngokungafani nalokho ubungane obukunikeza ukuzijabulisa nokuzijabulisa, bunomthelela omuhle kuwe, empilweni yakho nasemsebenzini wakho, inqobo nje uma ukwazi ukukhetha abangane bakho !! !

Ake sikutshele namuhla ukuthi abangani bakuzuzisa kanjani ngaphandle kokuzizwa???

Isigqi esisheshayo nesisebenzayo

Imiphumela yocwaningo ibonise ukuthi abantu abaningi bakhetha ukuphatha izimpilo zabo ngokushesha nangesikhathi eside, ngemva kokuzuza kokuhlangenwe nakho okufanayo kubangani babo. Umngane onomdlandla ukhuthaza umngane ukuba alahle ubuvila futhi aphile impilo ekhuthele, ezokulethela ukwaneliseka ekugcineni.

2- ngcono impilo

Ukuba nomngane odla ukudla okunempilo kuyinto enhle, njengoba kukunikeza inzuzo yokudla okulinganiselayo, njengoba ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuthi labo abajabulela ubuhlobo obuqinile nobuhle bezenhlalakahle bajabulela ukucindezeleka kwegazi okulinganiselayo, ukuthuthukiswa kokuphuma komzimba kwamahomoni, ngaphezu kokuthola kwabo amasosha omzimba aqinile ngisho Futhi nezinga lokutheleleka elincane.

3- Khulisa ubuhlakani bakho

Umuntu uhlakanipha kakhulu lapho ezungeza abantu abahlakaniphile namakhono ahlukahlukene. Ucwaningo lubonise ukuthi ukuba nenethiwekhi yokuxhumana esekelayo - ngisho nenethiwekhi ebonakalayo ku-Facebook noma ku-Instagram - kungakusiza ufunde ulwazi olwengeziwe. Nokho, ubungane obubonakalayo abubalulekile kangako kunobungane bangempela phakathi kwabantu ababili ngendlela eqondile yokuphana ulwazi nolwazi ngezici ezihlukahlukene.

4- Lahla imikhuba emibi

Umngane uyisibuko kumngane wakhe. Uma uzama ukuyeka ukubhema kodwa unomngane obhemayo, imizamo yakho ingase ibe nzima kakhulu, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuzungeza abantu abahle abakukhuthazayo ukuba uthathe imikhuba emisha nehlanzekile.

Abantu abangakwazi ukuyeka imikhuba yabo emibi bavame ukuzama ukukuvimba ekuphumeleleni ngokubhala izaba ngemva kwezaba. Akekho ofuna ukuba yisahluleki eyedwa. Ungazivumeli uwele kulolu gibe. Thola umngane omuhle osekela ukuthuthukiswa kwemikhuba enempilo ngokuletha ubuhle empilweni yakho.

Abangane bethu babaluleke kakhulu empilweni yethu, ngakho-ke zinike isikhathi sokucabanga ukuthi ungazuza kanjani kubangani bakho ukuze uthuthukise impilo yakho, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi okomqondo, ngokomzwelo, ngokomoya noma ngokomzimba. Abangane beqiniso bayisipho sangempela, zama ukubenza bazizwe ukuthi uyabazisa kangakanani.