Ungazikhulula kanjani emikhawulweni?

Enye yezimfihlo ezibaluleke kakhulu zenjabulo nempumelelo ukukhululeka emigoqweni nasezithiyoni ezingokwengqondo, futhi ukuze sizikhulule kuzo, kufanele sibe nokuzethemba okwanele.Futhi kufanele ukhululeke kukho ngamanye amathiphu esizokunikeza wona. :

ziqhelelanise nezaba

Thatha umthwalo wemicabango nezenzo zakho, uma wephuzile emsebenzini wakho, ungaphikisani nesiminyaminya, kodwa vuma ukuthi ushiywe nje kuphela.

Ungasabi

Ungavumeli ukwesaba kulawule impilo yakho; Futhi yazi kahle ukuthi izinto owesaba ukuzenza yizo ezikwenza ufanelekele ukuba ngumuntu ofisa ukuba nguye.

Ungabi nandaba nemibono yabanye abantu

Noma ubani onokuzethemba akathinteki kabi emibonweni yabanye kuye, naphezu kokubakhathalela kwakhe futhi ezama ukunikeza umsebenzi omuhle osebenzela umphakathi futhi angabanjwa yimibono engemihle angakwazi ukuyenza, naphezu kobubi abenzayo. akwenzayo empilweni yakhe.

Gwema ukwahlulela abanye

Ukubukela phansi izindaba zabanye kukhombisa ukuntula ukuzethemba kanye nomuzwa wokuzizwa uphansi, futhi lokhu kuyinto ekude kakhulu kumuntu ozethembayo kuye, njengoba engabudingi ubuntu bakhe nokusebenza kwakhe, futhi uyazi ukuthi ukunciphisa eminye ayisebenzi.

Ungavumeli ukuntuleka kwezinsiza kukuvimbele 

Ukuntuleka kwezinsiza kwenza umuntu anyakaze ngokwengqondo, kumthiye futhi ambophe ngemikhawulo enamandla, ngakho-ke sebenzisa izinsiza ezitholakalayo kuwe futhi ungenzi ukuntuleka kwezinsiza kube isithiyo kunoma iyiphi impumelelo.

ungaqhathanisi

Ungaziqhathanisi nomunye umuntu, kodwa kunalokho uziqhathanise namuhla nalokho obuyikho izolo, ngoba wonke umuntu uphila indaba ehluke ngokuphelele nezimo komunye, ngakho-ke ukuqhathanisa akusizi ngalutho.

Dlulisa umqondo wokujabulisa abantu

Akekho emhlabeni onganelisa bonke abantu; Isenzo esijabulisa umngane oyedwa singase sicasule omunye. Ngakho-ke, uma ufuna ukukhululeka emikhawulweni, gxila emizamweni yakho ekwakheni ubudlelwano obuqinile nabantu abathile.

Kufanele uqonde i-logic yempilo

Impilo ihlehla nenyuka, usuku olwakho nosuku luphambene nawe, futhi yazi ukuthi izinto azihambi ngendlela ofisa ngayo, futhi awukwazi ukulawula zonke izehlakalo zempilo, ngakho-ke gxila emandleni akho uzame ukuzuza nabo, futhi silwele ukunqoba izinselele.

Ungalindi imvume kunoma ubani

Ukungabaza kuyisithiyo esibaluleke kakhulu esikubekela imingcele: “Uma unombono, zimisela, ngoba ukonakala kombono kuwukuba uyangabaza.”

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