Ungayibuyisela kanjani inhliziyo yesithandwa sakho ngemva kokumlimaza?

Uma ungomunye wabantu abathathekayo nabangenangqondo, khona-ke lapho kwenzeka noma yikuphi ukungezwani, kulula kakhulu ukuthukuthela futhi ukhulume amagama athile aholela ekulahlekelweni komuntu omthandayo futhi aphule inhliziyo yakhe, owathembisa ukuthi ngeke umphoxe. Ngabe ukonile?!! Nawa amanye amathiphu okubuyisela inhliziyo yesithandwa sakho osilimele:

vuma iphutha 

Ukuvuma iphutha kungenye yezinyathelo zokuqala zokubuyisela ukwethenjwa kothile. Ukuxolisa kuyisihluthulelo, ngokuthi "ngiyaxolisa" ngokwethembeka futhi uvumele inqubo yokuphulukisa iqhubeke.

Phinda uthole ukwethenjwa 

Uwena owenze iphutha, ungalindeli ukuthi umuntu omonile akuxolele kalula, futhi kubalulekile ukuthi usebenzele ukulungisa ubudlelwano bakho nokubuyisela ukwethemba komuntu kuwe, futhi kufanele ukhumbule njalo ukuthi udinga amandla akho.

Iba nesineke

Indlela engcono kakhulu yokubuyisela ukwethenjwa omunye umuntu ukubekezela, umuntu omzwise ubuhlungu angase akususe kude nawe okwesikhashana, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo udinga ukusekela kwakho nokuphikelela kwakho ekuzameni ukulungisa lokho okugqekeze kuye.

GCINA IZINKINGA ZAKHO ZIYIMFIHLO

Lena indlela esebenzayo yokubuyisela ukwethenjwa kothile.Uma uke waxabana kakhulu nomuntu omthandayo, ungayivezi le ngxabano nanoma ubani, futhi kufanele uqaphele ukuthi ungashicileli imininingwane emincane, ngoba ungase wenze ihaba ngenkinga ngaphandle kokwenza. uzizwa kabi kakhulu.

Gwema ukwenza iphutha elifanayo kabili

Enye yezindlela ezibaluleke kakhulu zokubuyisela ukwethenjwa komunye ukugwema ukwenza iphutha elifanayo futhi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uqambe amanga noma umkhohlisile...

Uthando aluthinti lutho kodwa lulwenza lube ngcwele..kanti injabulo yakho othandweni ilele enjabulweni yalowo omthandayo, ungaloni ngenxa yezwi elibuhlungu elilimaza inhliziyo yothandiweyo.

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