Uyilawula kanjani intukuthelo yengane yakho?

Uyilawula kanjani intukuthelo yengane yakho?

Uchwepheshe wezemfundo waseMelika kanye nomeluleki waphetha ngokuthi uveze izindlela ezintathu namasu okudambisa izingane nokulawula intukuthelo yazo, ngaleyo ndlela kuncishiswe noma yikuphi ukuziphatha okunolaka ezingase ziphendukele kukho, njengoba zikwazi ukulawula imizwa yazo futhi zisabele ekuxazululeni izinkinga. izimo abachayeka kuzo.

Ungoti waseMelika ogxile ekukhuliseni izingane, uDkt. Jeffrey Bernstein, esihlokweni esishicilelwe yi-“Psychology Today” futhi esibukwa yi-“Al Arabiya.net” ukuthi kunamasu amathathu asebenzayo okusiza ukwehlisa ulaka lwengane ubaba nomama abangalisebenzisa. ukuze bathuthukise ukuziphatha kwezingane zabo.

Isu lokuqala

Ngokuqondene nesu lokuqala uBernstein akhuluma ngalo, “ukufundisa ingane amasu okulawula imizwelo,” ngokukhuthaza ingane ukuba ishintshe imicabango engemihle ngemicabango ezwelayo futhi evumelana nezimo ngokwayo, isibonelo, esikhundleni sokuthi, “ Ngimubi futhi akukho okungifanele neze,” qeqeshela ingane yakho ukuba ithi: “Yebo, kunzima, kodwa akukona ukuphela kwezwe.” Lokhu kusho ukuguqula izinkolelo eziphambene zibe izinkolelo eziyinzuzo enganeni futhi nakulabo abaseduze kwakhe.

Ungoti wezemfundo uthi ubaba nomama kufanele basize ingane ukuba ibone futhi inselele izinkolelo ezingezinhle, bese esikhundleni sazo bakhulume amazwi akhayo abonisa ithemba.

Lo chwepheshe utusa nokuthi ingane kufanele ifundiswe ukuba ingaxhamazeli ukusabela, futhi uthi: “Khuthaza ingane yakho ukuba iphefumule ngokujulile lapho ithukuthele. Bafundise ukuhogela kancane kancane ngamakhala abo futhi bakhiphe ngomlomo wabo. Ukuphefumula okujulile njalo kungabasiza behlise umoya ezimweni ezicindezelayo.”

Isu lesibili

Ngokuqondene neqhinga lesibili, “iwukuthuthukisa ukukhulumisana ngokukhululekile nokulalela ngenkuthalo.” UBernstein utusa ukuba ubaba nomama baqikelele ukuthi umntwana uzizwa ekhululekile ukuveza imizwa yakhe ngaphandle kokwesaba ukwahlulela noma ukujeziswa. umzwelo ongokwemvelo, futhi kulungile ukuthukuthela.” Kodwa kubalulekile nokuwuveza ngendlela efanele.”

Uyanezela, “Lapho ingane yakho ithukuthele, lalela ngentshiseko ezikhathazayo ngaphandle kokuyiphazamisa noma ukuyiziba imizwa yayo. Cabanga ngalokho abakushoyo ukuze ubonise ukuthi uyayiqonda imizwa yabo futhi uyakuqinisekisa, lokhu kuzobasiza bazizwe bezwiwa futhi kuthumbe intukuthelo yabo.”

Isu lesithathu

Ngokuqondene neqhinga lesithathu lokulawula intukuthelo yengane, “liwukufundisa amakhono okuxazulula izinkinga nawokuxazulula izingxabano,” njengoba uBernstein egomela ukuthi kuyadingeka ukusiza ingane “ukuba ibone izimo, izenzakalo, noma abantu abavame ukucasula ingane yakhe. ukuthukuthela, ngokuhlonza lezi zisusa ngendlela eyenza kube nokwenzeka kangcono ukulindela nokulawula ukusabela kwazo ngokomzwelo.”

Uyanezela: “Khuthaza ingane yakho ukuba ishintshisane ngemibono futhi ihlole amakhambi ahlukahlukene ezinkingeni noma izingxabano ebhekana nazo, ifundise ukucabanga ngemiphumela yezenzo zayo nomthelela wazo kwabanye, futhi ikhuthaze uzwela nokuqonda.”

Uyaqhubeka, “Siza ingane yakho ihlakulele uzwela ngokuyikhuthaza ukuba icabange ngendlela abanye abangase bazizwe ngayo esimweni esithile. Lokhu kungabasiza ukuba babe nesimo sengqondo sokuqonda nesihawu, okungaholela ekwehliseni intukuthelo yabo.”

Futhi umbhali, uBernstein, uphetha ngokuthi, “Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi yonke ingane ihlukile, futhi kudingekile ukuba kuklanywe amasu afanele iminyaka yayo nesigaba sokukhula. Ukuqina, ukubekezela, nokusekela kuyisihluthulelo sokusiza ingane yakho ukulawula intukuthelo yayo ngokuphumelelayo. Uma unokukhathazeka okuphikelelayo mayelana nentukuthelo yengane yakho noma uma intukuthelo yayo isicasula noma ilimaza, kungase kube usizo ukufuna isiqondiso kuchwepheshe abaqeqeshiwe, njengodokotela wengqondo yezingane.

Kuyaphawuleka ukuthi uDkt. Jeffrey Bernstein ungumqeqeshi wabazali kanye nodokotela wengqondo owaziwayo e-United States, futhi unolwazi lweminyaka engaphezu kuka-30 ekunikezeni izeluleko ezinganeni, intsha, imibhangqwana, kanye nemindeni. kanye nezenzakalo ngokuziphatha kwezingane, futhi unezincwadi eziningi nezincwadi ezinyathelisiwe.Okuthandwa kakhulu futhi kubhekwa njengesithenjwa emkhakheni wezemfundo.

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