Indlela yokuzingela umngane ongavamile?

Ukuba khona kwabantu abahle ezimpilweni zethu kunempilo kakhulu, banamandla amakhulu okuthumela ukuthunyelwa okukhulu kwamandla amahle ngisho noma amazwi abo emancane, ngakho-ke ukuba khona kwabo kuthinta kahle yonke imininingwane yezimpilo zethu, ngakho-ke uhlukanisa kanjani ukuthi ubani ungumuntu oqondile futhi uzingele ukuthi abe umngane wakho ngalezi zici?

1- Ukuba nethemba njalo nokuba nethemba, njengoba ubathola ezikhathini ezinzima kakhulu, bagcina lesi sici bona kanye nabanye.

2- Ukucaca kanye nokulula ekukhulumeni, njengoba ubathola bevame ukusebenzisa izinkulumo ezicacile, ezilula ukuze bonke abantu baziqonde ngaphandle kokukhetha.

3- Bathanda bonke abantu futhi bathatha inzondo, inzondo nomona njengezono ezingenakuthethelelwa, ngakho ababambezeli muntu, abazondi muntu, futhi abamoneli muntu.

4- Uthola induduzo, ukuthula nokuthula ekuziphatheni nasekuziphatheni kwabo.

5- Abantu abaningi bayabathanda futhi bayathandwa lapho beya khona.

6- Basiza abantu mahhala futhi bayithathe njengendaba ewela emahlombe abo.

7- Uthola ukumamatheka nokujabula ebusweni babo ngisho nangezikhathi zokucindezeleka.

8- Banesitayela esikhethekile nesikhangayo enkulumweni yabo nabanye.

9- Baheha abantu ngendlela ababaphatha ngayo, egcwele uthando, isimilo, nokuphana.

10- Bavame ukwenza umsebenzi wokusiza abantulayo noma wokusiza abantu ngaso sonke isikhathi ngaphandle kokutshela abanye ngakho.

11- Bafunda futhi bafunde ngesikhathi sabo sokuphumula ukuze bakhulise ulwazi lwabo nokuzazi.

12- Bakhathalele abangani babo, izihlobo kanye nemindeni yabo ngangokunokwenzeka, ngakho uthola abasondelene nabo besondelana nabo.

13- Awutholi kubo okuyize nokuzikhukhumeza, kodwa ubona ukuzethemba nokuthobeka kubonakaliswa ekuziphatheni kwabo.

14- Bakhuthaza abanye ukuthi baphishekele imigomo yabo yokuphila futhi babasize ukuba benze kanjalo.

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