Indlela yokuba ngumuntu ozethembayo futhi okhangayo

Kuyini ukuzethemba?
Kuwukuba umuntu awazi ngokugcwele amakhono akhe nokuziphatha kwakhe okuhle.Kuyinkolelo yomuntu ezinqumweni zakhe, ezinhlosweni nasemakhonweni.Abantu abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi ukuzethemba kuhlobene nokuzikhukhumeza kanye nokweqa.Kuwukukholelwa kuphela emandleni. kanye nekhono lokufinyelela empumelelweni futhi uthole okufunayo, kodwa ukuzethemba akusho ukuthi konke okushoyo noma okwenzayo.Ukwenza kahle.Uma uhlangabezana namaphutha kufanele uvume iphutha.Kungenjalo, kuzoba ukuzethemba okuhambisana nenkani. nokuphikelela kuze kufike lapho kungathathwa khona ukuzethemba kuthathwa njengokubekelwa ubuntu akabizwa ngokuthi umuntu ozethembayo.. Ukuzethemba kuyisici esikhula sikhule ngokukhula komuntu kodwa umuntu akazalwa, futhi kuyisici esikhona kuye, futhi lokhu akusho ukuthi akulona izakhi zofuzo.Kukhulise, kukwenza uzizwe ukhethekile, futhi kukugcina kude ekuzinikeleni nasekuzithobeni.
Uzethemba kanjani? 
1- Ukunakekela ukubukeka kwangaphandle nobuhle, akuzona izingubo ezinikeza umuntu ukubaluleka, kodwa izingubo zikanokusho zikunikeza umuzwa ozizwa uqiniseka ngawo, ozonakekela ubuhle bethu kodwa thina.

2- Ukuhamba njalo kubonisa ukuzethemba kwakho.

3- Isakhiwo somzimba wakho uma umile futhi uhlezi yenza umhlane wakho uqonde futhi uphakamise ikhanda lakho, kodwa hhayi kakhulu, futhi ube amehlo akho kulabo okhuluma nabo ngqo, lokhu kuthinta abanye futhi kukunika ukuzethemba kuwe.

4- Ukuzincoma nokubala okuhle nokuhle ukuze uzizwe ubalulekile futhi ukuzethemba kwakho kukunikeza ukuzethemba okuphelele.
5- Uma usesifundweni noma ngabe yikuphi, hlalani ohlwini lokuqala, njengoba abaningi bethu befuna izindawo zokugcina zokuhlala, njengoba lokhu kubonisa ukuntula ukuzethemba. front kuzokusiza ukuqeda ukwesaba, ukukhathazeka kanye nokushuba.

6- Kufanele uncome abanye ukuze bangakuphathi kabi futhi bazizwe bengelutho, ngaleyo ndlela wehlise ukuzethemba kwakho.

7-Uma ukhuluma khuluma kakhulu ukhulume kakhulu, nephimbo lakho licace, abanye bayakuqonda okushoyo, kodwa ungalikhiphi izwi kakhulu, ukuze abanye bakubone futhi bakhathale ingxoxo yakho.

8- Yabelana nabanye ngezinjabulo nosizi lwabo, ukuze uzwe ukubaluleka kokuba khona kwakho, futhi kukhulisa ukuzethemba kwakho.