Ungaba kanjani umnikazi we-charisma eqinile?

I-Charisma yileyo mfanelo ejulile ekujuleni kwakho eyenza abanye bakuthande, bafune ukuchitha isikhathi esiningi nawe, balalele okushoyo, bathonywe yikho, babukele okwenzayo, futhi bafunde kuwe. i-charismatic enamandla:

uzazi wena

Ngaphambi kokuba uthonye abanye, kufanele uqale uziqonde wena, uqonde izihluthulelo zobuntu bakho, uqaphele izenzo zakho nokusabela kwakho, futhi unake ukunyakaza komzimba wakho kanye nokukhuluma kwakho ezimweni ezehlukene... Ukuziqonda kwakho nekhono lakho lokuqonda izenzo zakho. ikunikeza amandla kanye nekhono lokubhekana nawe ngobuhlakani nangokuqaphela.... Udinga ukwazi ukuthi abanye abantu bazokubona kanjani ngaphambi kokuthi ucabange ngokubathinta.

phakamisa umoya wakho

Sonke siyavuma ukuthi umuntu ojabulayo, ojabulayo ubathinta kahle labo abamzungezile, futhi siyavuma ukuthi umuntu ocindezelekile futhi okhungathekile uhlukanisa abantu naye, futhi ukuze uthinte abanye kahle, kufanele ube nomoya ophezulu, futhi ngendlela elula kakhulu. ukuphakamisa imimoya kuwukuzivocavoca, ngoba ezemidlalo zithuthukisa isimo sengqondo futhi zikhulule Ingcindezi, zigcine impilo futhi zilule ukuphila, zikwenze kube isimiso sansuku zonke ekuphileni kwakho.

Benze bazizwe bebalulekile

Sonke sidonsekela kumuntu osikhathalelayo, ngakho-ke uma ufuna ukukhanga othile kuwe, lalela lokho akushoyo, wazane, mqonde kakhudlwana, futhi umenze azizwe ebaluleke kakhulu. endaweni.

Thuthukisa ulwazi lwakho namasiko

Ulwazi namasiko kwenza umphathi walo athandeke kakhulu.Wonke umuntu unezinto azithandayo, ahlangabezane nazo kanye nolwazi kweminye yezindaba zempilo.Khuluma nabanye ngezinto ezikuthakaselayo, ezikuthintayo, eziphakamisa imimoya yakho, nezithinta indlela obheka ngayo impilo. izithakazelo, izinkolelo, imicabango nolwazi.

nakekela ukubukeka kwakho

Indlela obukeka ngayo ibaluleke kakhulu.Ukubukeka okunempilo,ukuqina komzimba,umzimba ofanelekile, nendlela ogqoka ngayo konke kuthinta umbono wabantu ngawe ngoba kuwumyalezo wokuqala owuthumela kwabanye ngawe.Ukwenza lokhu kugcizelele,awukwenzi. kufanele uboleke indlu yakho noma uthathe imali ebolekiwe ukuze unakekele ukubukeka kwakho, thatha kalula futhi ungabe usabiza ibhajethi yakho.

bahawukele

Ukulalela ngokucophelela kanye nozwela oluqotho kuyindlela emfushane kakhulu yokuba umuntu onothando. Uzobathonya kanjani abantu uma ungabaqondi?

Bakhumbule amazwi akho

Enkulumweni yakho, sebenzisa izifaniso nezindaba ngaso sonke isikhathi ngoba ziphakathi kwamathuluzi aphumelela kakhulu enza inkulumo yakho ithakazelise futhi iphumelele, futhi usize abanye ukuba bakhumbule njalo amagama akho, kuhlanganise nezincazelo nezifundo.

kube ukukhanya

Abantu bayathandeka ngokwemvelo kumuntu obenza bahleke, zama ukufaka amahlaya enkulumweni yakho bese uzama ukwakha umoya wenjabulo lapho ukhona.

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