Kungani amadoda ekopela kakhulu kunabesifazane?

Abanye besifazane bayamangala ukuthi kungani indoda ithengisa ngaphezu kowesifazane, futhi isola indoda ngokuntula isimilo nokuziphatha.Asiwakhululi amadoda, nokho, empeleni, ngokwemvelo, bathambekele ekukhapheni abantu besifazane, futhi isizathu sizolandela ndawonye. kulesi sihloko namuhla Ngingubani Salwa.
Okokuqala: isifiso soshintsho: amadoda ashesha ukucikeka ngeqiniso lawo kunabesifazane, kuyilapho abesifazane bevame ukuba nesimiso.Owesilisa nguyena owahlola izindawo ezintsha, izilwandle ezintsha neziqhingi ezintsha, kuyilapho owesifazane kunguyena owasungula ezolimo, futhi endaweni yakhe nangasemhumeni wakhe wathola indlela yokutshala nokwandisa imbewu...
Amadoda avame ukuphuma futhi ashintshe umoya, abesifazane bavame ukugcina umndeni.

 Okwesibili: Ubuqotho: Owesifazane, ngokwemvelo kanye nefa lakhe, uthembekile ngaphezu kwendoda.Ufana nempande, impande yomuthi enamathela emhlabathini, ekuqaleni, emndenini ... Ngenkathi indoda ifana ne imbali enikeza impova futhi iyisakaze emoyeni ukuze impova zonke ezinye izimbali, ngakho indoda ifuna ukufuduka ngaphezu kowesifazane, ngakho-ke kulula Imelwe ukushiya umndeni wayo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi abazali noma inkosikazi ingaphezu owesifazane ... Ngombono wabanye besifazane ngesikhathi sobugovu umyeni ukhetha phakathi kwakhe nomama wakhe, isibonelo, futhi amadoda athile akhetha unkosikazi ngenxa yokunamathela kwabo ngokwengqondo nangokomzimba kuye, kuyilapho umyeni enza okufanayo bese ekhetha umkakhe phakathi kwakhe nomndeni wakhe, akavamile ukusikwa Owesifazane ugcina ubuhlobo bakhe nomndeni wakhe, noma kuyimfihlo, futhi uma enqamula ngenkani, isizathu isifiso sakhe sokuhlala eduze kwakhe. izingane futhi uzikhulise.

Okwesithathu: Umphakathi: Umphakathi uyakwamukela ukukhashelwa kowesilisa kakhulu kunokwamukela ukukhashelwa kowesifazane.Kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo, isijeziso sowesifazane okhohlisayo sinzima kunesijeziso sowesilisa okhohlisayo, kanye nenganekwane yamaGreki kaJason and Media. , ngokwesibonelo, wakulahla ukukhaphela kukaMedea umndeni wakhe ngokuphindwe kabili kunalokho akulahla uJason ukumkhaphela nomunye wesifazane… Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abesifazane bayasaba Ukulahlwa komphakathi kungaphezu kwalokho okusatshwa yindoda, ngoba ezingeni ukungethembeki emshadweni, amahloni enziwa emndenini wowesifazane oyimbuka nomndeni wakhe adlulele nasezinganeni zakhe, kanti ihlazo lithinta indoda eyimbuka kuphela futhi akudluleli ebantwaneni bayo... Ngenxa yobumnandi, ngenkathi izwe liphakama futhi ungahlali ekhanda lowesifazane othengisa umyeni wakhe ngisho nangobudlelwane bothando olulodwa... Futhi ngenkathi umphakathi ubheka ukuthi isizathu sokukhaphela kwendoda kumkayo unkosikazi ngokwakhe ngokungazinaki yena futhi atholele umyeni izizathu futhi izaba zokukhashelwa kwakhe, umphakathi ngokwawo ubheka ukuthi isizathu sokukhashelwa komfazi Umyeni wakhe unesimo esibi nokuziphatha okubi, futhi umyeni uthola izizathu nezaba zokumbulala, isibonelo, njengesijeziso kuye ... Kukhona -okuthiwa ubugebengu bokuhlonishwa, lapho umyeni ejeziswa kuphela ngesijeziso esincishisiwe lapho Usola nje ukuthi umkakhe uyimbuka futhi uyambulala ngenxa yokusola kwakhe, kanti alikho icala lokuhlonipha uma owesifazane ebambe umyeni wakhe embhedeni womshado nowesifazane wesibili benza ucansi olugcwele futhi ambulale, bese ejeziswa ngokuphila. ukuboshwa noma ngisho nokufa... Ubugebengu bokuhlonipha ukwesaba ukuhlonishwa kowesifazane yindoda, Nakuba umthetho ungabheki ukuthi ukwesaba kowesifazane ukuhlonishwa komyeni wakhe kufanelekile, mhlawumbe ngenxa yokuthi akubheki ukuhlonishwa komyeni njengokwesatshwa.

Okwesine, nokubaluleke kakhulu: Ukukhululeka: Ngaphambili, futhi ngenxa yendoda esebenza kakhulu kunowesifazane, ukuxhumana nabanye besifazane emsebenzini noma ekuphileni kwakulula ngendoda kunowesifazane osekhaya nabantwana bakhe. Kodwa ngenqubekela phambili yempilo ikakhulukazi njengoba sekuvela izinkundla zokuxhumana engizibiza ngezinkundla ezimelene nomphakathi sekuphenduke.Kuleli vesi owesifazane ohlezi ekhaya angathola isikhathi esanele sokujwayelana namakhulu amadoda ngoFacebook. noma u-WhatsApp, isibonelo, uma kuqhathaniswa nendoda echitha isikhathi esiningi emsebenzini.Kulezi zinsuku, abesifazane banabangane abaningi, futhi bangakwazi ukuvula izingxoxo ezithatha amahora amaningi ngesikhathi nangezihloko ezikhethekile.Futhi ezibucayi endaweni, usekamelweni lakhe lokuphumula........ Usekwazi nokuthumelela "abangane" bakhe bamadoda izithombe esembhedeni wakhe kanti umyeni wakhe ulala eziqinisa eduze kwakhe.....
Ngemva “kwenguquko” yemithombo yezokuxhumana okungezona ezomphakathi, kwaba khona “inguquko” yokuziphatha komndeni eyayihambisana nokuhlakazeka kwenani elikhulu lemindeni ngenxa yezinkulumo ezimnandi abesifazane abazizwayo nabazizwayo kuyi-Internet... A kakhulu Ithuluzi elincane elingangengxenye yentende yesandla liwumakhalekhukhwini owabhubhisa yonke imindeni nemiphakathi endabeni yawo.... Ngokwami ​​ukubona, ukukhaphela nge-inthanethi akuhlukile nokukhaphela kwangempela.Zonke izenzo eziholela ekuhlukaneni emndenini, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi zilula kangakanani, kuwukukhaphela ubungcwele bomshado, kanye nazo zonke izinkulumo ezishiwo owesifazane. endodeni, ngendlela yokuxhumana, ukuthi akakwazi ukusho phambi komyeni wakhe, umndeni wakhe kanye nezingane zakhe isenzo sokukhaphela ... Ekugcineni futhi empeleni ... Namuhla amadoda awasekho ukukopela ngaphezu kwabesifazane. , kuncike ezimisweni nasemfundweni.