Ngenxa yalezi zizathu, umyeni wakho akasakuthandi futhi akakukhathaleli

Qaphela wena mfazi ngoba uwena ohola iphini ebudlelwaneni bakho nendoda yakho, futhi wena unesibopho, uma ubona amaphutha noma izinguquko ohlangothini lwendoda yakho kuwe qiniseka ukuthi isisombululo sisezandleni zakho. Akufihliwe kunoma yimuphi owesifazane ukuthi izingcindezi zangaphandle ezitholwa umyeni, njengezingcindezi zomsebenzi nemithwalo yemfanelo yomkhaya, ziyakhathala.Indoda iphoqeleka ukuba ihlukane nomkayo kancane, ingahlosile, kodwa uma ubuhlobo benu bubanda kakhulu, phindani. ngokwakho: Usazikhathalela njengoba wawujwayele?Usamkhathalela?

Uma usagcizelela ukuthi uyisigebengu, kuwena sthandwa sami, namuhla okubalulekile wukweqa umyeni wakho kuwe.

Eyokuqala: Lapho kufika umntwana wokuqala, umyeni uzizwa sengathi uyena ophethe umndeni, futhi uzodela ngenxa yawo, ngakho uzomqaphela futhi amqaphele.
Futhi uhlala emsebenzini wakhe ukuze onge imali, okwenza ukucindezelwa kwengqondo nezenhlalakahle kuye kakhulu, futhi lapha uqala ukucabanga ngomunye wesifazane.

Okwesibili: Ukunaka ngokweqile komfazi enganeni kanye nokungabi nasithakazelo komyeni kumyeni kuqondisa amehlo akhe komunye wesifazane kuze kube yilapho ebonisa ukuthi usathandeka futhi ufiseleka.
Futhi akakalahlekelwa ubungqabavu nomsebenzi wakhe okwamanje.

Okwesithathu: Mhlawumbe lokhu kungenxa ye "Childian" njengoba ekhumbula izinsuku zokungathathi umthwalo wemfanelo, futhi ebheke empilweni yothando oyifunayo, ngenxa yokuthi uphendukela komunye wesifazane.

Okwesine: Lapho umyeni ebhekene nezinkinga emsebenzini wakhe, noma eqaphela ukuthi abaphathi abamazisanga kwezokuzijabulisa nokwazisa, angase aphendukele komunye wesifazane.
Ukuzibonakalisa ukuthi uyafunwa, nokuthi waziswa ngabanye, okungukuthi noma ubani ngaphandle komkakhe noma abaphathi bakhe emsebenzini.

Okwesihlanu: Uma inkosikazi iqala ukudelela noma ukumazisa umyeni wayo, ikakhulukazi phambi komndeni wayo noma phambi komndeni wayo, futhi iqala ukuyigcona noma ukuhlekisa ngokuziphatha kwayo,
Lokhu kuyisici esibalulekile esimphusha ukuthi afune omunye wesifazane omhloniphayo.

Okwesithupha: Uma inkosikazi ingamlaleli umyeni wayo lapho ikhononda kuye ngokukhathala emsebenzini nanoma yiziphi ezinye izinkinga, iphendukela komunye umuntu.
Ukuze afeze umgomo wakhe futhi mhlawumbe athole umuntu ozomlalela.

Okwesikhombisa: Ukungabi bikho kwesimo esifanele indoda endlini ngazo zonke izindlela, mayelana nokumnakekela nokumenza azi ukuthi ubalulekile endlini nokuthi uyamdinga, nokuthi uyinsika lapho ukuphumula komndeni.

Okwesishiyagalombili: Ukuncisha indoda ukumamatheka komkayo lapho imamukela noma ivalelisa, nokwehluleka komfazi ukudala umoya wenjabulo endlini ngokunganakekeli izingubo zakhe.
Nokuhlanganyela kwakhe ekukhetheni nasekuvezeni umbono wayo ngobuhle bayo.

Kuyadingeka ukuba inkosikazi yazi ukuthi umyeni wayo uhlushwa imithwalo ethile nokuthi uma ebekezela futhi emsiza ukuba adlule kuleso sigaba, ngeke kube khona ukuhlukana noma isehlukaniso.
Isizathu salokhu yizici ezishiwo ngenhla.

Mhlawumbe lezi yizimpawu zesifiso esidlulayo ekuphileni komyeni futhi sibangelwa izingcindezi zokuphila, kodwa ukubekezela, ukungagunci nokunaka kuye kubuyisela amanzi endleleni yawo.

Inkosikazi akumelwe ivumele lezi zifiso ukuba ziqhubeke ngenkani, inkani, nokuphikelela ekuqhubekiseni ukuhlukana nokuphathwa kabi komyeni.
Kunalokho, kufanele asebenzelane naye ngothando nangokuqonda, ukuze ajabule ngenjabulo yakhe, ahlanganyele izinkathazo nosizi lwakhe, futhi atuse impumelelo ayifinyelelayo, ngaphandle kwalokho akasoze ahlekisa ngobudoda bakhe.
Noma ululaze izenzo nezenzo zakhe, njengoba lesi kuyisizathu esinamandla nesiyingozi kakhulu sokubhidliza ukuphila komshado, futhi kuyisisusa sokuqala sokuba indoda ifune
Mayelana nomunye wesifazane azizwa ephephile, ezinzile futhi ethandwa naye