Yiziphi izisekelo zemfundo ephumelelayo nephusile, uzivikela kanjani izingane zakho ekukhohlakaleni komphakathi?

Yindaba ethinta wonke umama nobaba, ngakho ubona wonke umama ekhononda futhi esaba ukuthi izingane zakhe ezincane zizokhukhulwa umkhuba odlangile wokuwohloka kokuziphatha, futhi ubona wonke ubaba ebheka ezincwadini imiyalelo neziqondiso zesisekelo. yemfundo ephusile, ngakho-ke siyini isihluthulelo semfundo ephumelelayo futhi ingabe ngempela ubuciko obungaqondwa yilabo abanesiphiwo kuphela.

Elinye lamalungelo abaluleke kakhulu omntwana kubazali bakhe ukuthi athole ukukhuliswa ngendlela efanele okumenza afanelekele ukwakha impilo yakhe nekusasa lakhe phezu kwezisekelo eziqinile ezimenza abe ngumuntu owusizo kuqala kuye nasezweni lakhe.Umqondo ofundile. Akungabazeki ukuthi thina bantu sihlukaniswa kwezinye izidalwa ngekhono lokuhlukanisa phakathi kokulimazayo nokuzuzisayo. Abahle nababi Ngakho-ke, uma sinenzalo, sizama ngawo wonke amandla ethu ukukhulisa amadodana ethu namadodakazi ukuba abe abalungile kubo kanye nasemphakathini wabo.
Futhi ngenxa yokuthi umqondo wemfundo efanele uyahluka kumuntu oyedwa kuye komunye, ngakho-ke ezinye izingane zivezwa emfundweni engalungile yokwahlulela, futhi ikakhulukazi kuncike emikhubeni engalungile yomphakathi noma ekungaqondini izindlela eziphumelelayo zemfundo, ngakho sibona izingane eziningi zinezinkinga ezinkulu zemfundo izimpilo zabo futhi kuvame ukuba nomthelela empumelelweni yabo empilweni yabo ephathekayo nengokwenhlalo, futhi imindeni yabo ikhononde Ubukhona Babo ezinganeni zabo ngaphandle kokwazi ukuthi yibona abayimbangela yalokhu ngezindlela abazilandelayo ekukhuleni kwabo.

Elinye lalawa maphutha ezemfundo abaluleke kakhulu (ukukhishwa). Ngokwesibonelo, ubaba uyayithulisa indodana yakhe lapho ikhuluma noma ihlanganyela engxoxweni kukhona nesivakashi esikhuthaze ikhaya phakathi kwabadala kunaye. Mhlawumbe lokhu kuthathwa njengokushoda kwezincwadi kanye nalokhu kuziphatha okungalungile kwezemfundo.Ingane inobuntu obubuthakathaka obungakwazi ukusebenzisa ilungelo layo lokubamba iqhaza kanye nenkulumo-mpikiswano ngokuphumelelayo, okubangela ukuthi amakhono omuntu siqu wengane futhi ngenxa yalokho impilo ibe buthaka.Le ndlela ingase futhi ibe namandla. bangela ingane ukuba ikhulise ukuzihlukanisa futhi inciphise ukuzethemba kwayo ngenxa yokuzizwa ikhishwa inyumbazane. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukunikeza ithuba lokuhlanganyela engxoxweni futhi aveze umbono wakhe ngesiqondiso ngendlela enganyundeli uma kwenzeka kweqiwa imingcele enengqondo kababa. Othisha bayaqinisekisa ukuthi ukubamba iqhaza kwengane ezingxoxweni phakathi kwabantu abadala kudala ukuzethemba okukhulu futhi kuyicebise ngomqondo omuhle wesiko. Phakathi kwamaphutha abaluleke kakhulu ekukhuliseni izingane: ((oscillation in the decision)) ngaphakathi endlini phakathi kukamama nobaba (yebo, cha) lapho ecela okuthile kubaba bese ethi kuye “cha” nomama (“yebo ”). Lokhu kuntengantenga kwenza enganeni ibe nomkhuba wokuphuthuma ngoba Iyazi ukuthi izokuthola ekufunayo futhi kufanele ilinde bese icindezela ingane ukuba isebenzise ilungelo layo lapho encenga, okusiza ekuthuthukiseni amakhono ayo engxoxweni ezwakalayo. kanye nokuhlonipha omunye umbono kanye nokungalondeki ekuhlalisaneni nabanye ngaphandle kwekhaya, futhi ngaleyo ndlela kubangele ukucasuka kugxile ebuntwini bakhe. Izingxoxo ezishubile phakathi (ubaba nomama), uma zenzeka phambi kwamehlo nokuzwa kwezingane, zidala uhlobo lokwesaba nokukhathazeka ngokuhlalisana phakathi (ubaba nomama), abayisidleke sokuphepha kubo.
Ngakho-ke, izingxoxo phambi kwamehlo nezindlebe zezingane kufanele zigwenywe. Uma lokhu kwenziwa, abazali kufanele bachazele izingane ukuthi okwenzekile ngokwemvelo ngeke kuphazamise ubuhlobo bazo. Okokugcina, elinye lamaphutha abaluleke kakhulu ekukhuliseni izingane yileli: Ungathembeli ezincekwini ukuba ziqondise futhi zizifundise, futhi zinqume uhlelo lokudla ngaphandle kokuziphendulela kanye nokulandelela ngokucophelela. Izingane eziningi ezikhuliswe phakathi kwezinceku zalahlekelwa yimfundo yobuSulumane nobubele obuvela emphakathini wezinzalamizi nomndeni, ngakho-ke zahlupheka ngenxa yokuhlakazeka okuningi futhi zingaphika umphakathi nomndeni. Ngakho-ke, kungumsebenzi ka (ubaba nomama). Labo abathembele ezincekwini ezisizayo ukuba bakhulise izingane zabo ngoba bematasa emisebenzini yabo, bebeka isikhathi esithile sokulandelela impilo yezingane zabo, okungenani, bazoziveza amaphutha amaningi ezemfundo angeniswe ngezinceku.

Ukuvulwa kwengxoxo nezingane ngasohlangothini lwabazali; Ukunikeza izingane ithuba lokukhuluma nokudumisa amazwi azo; nikeza inkhulumomphendvulwano
Ukunambitheka okukhethekile kanye nomoya wothando nokuzethemba; Lokhu kubalulekile, njengoba ngezinye izikhathi sikuthola namuhla; abanye abantu abasha
Abakwazi ukuhlala nabantu abangabazi; noma ngezikhathi ezithile, futhi noma behlala phansi, abakhulumi; Hhayi ngoba bengafuni ukukhuluma, kodwa abakwazi ukukhuluma. Ngenxa yezinkinga ezingokwengqondo abazizwayo, njengokwesaba nesiyaluyalu, futhi lokhu kushiya imihuzuko ejulile engqondweni yensizwa.
Lona umphumela wezinto umntwana ayephila kuzo esemncane; njengokucindezelwa nokungamniki ithuba lokukhuluma; futhi unikeze umbono wakhe
Inkulumo yengcindezelo nendelelo kuphela elimaza ingqondo yakhe futhi imenza abaleke emihlanganweni yomndeni ngoba uma ehlala phansi akasho lutho.
Uma ekhuluma, akekho ozomuzwa. Kuphela kuyojulisa ubuhlungu ngokwayo; Yilokhu okwenza umntwana uma esekhulile abe yinsizwa
ubalekela imibuthano yomndeni; noma ukuhlalisana nabantu futhi uvame ukuba nesizungu nokusola; Kuyena nasemandleni akhe okusebenza
Kuqeda ukuzethemba ngokuphelele njengoba izinsuku zihamba; Ngaphandle uma lesi sici silungiswa ngokushesha futhi insizwa inikezwa inkululeko ngaphakathi endlini; Futhi asebenze ukuze aziqinise yena kanye namakhono akhe

Ingane kufanele futhi ifundiswe indlela yokuhlonipha nokuba ngaphansi kwesimiso somndeni futhi ingane kufanele iqeqeshwe ngokubaluleka kokulandela imithetho ekhona ekhaya kanye nokulandela amasiko nemikhuba emihle yomndeni ukuze ibhekane nabanye ngendlela indlela enesizotha futhi eqaphela imingcele yenkululeko yakhe ngaphandle kokulimaza inkululeko yabanye nokuhlonipha izifiso zabo nokuthi ukhulela ekulaleleni, hhayi ekungalalelini.Ukuzimela ukuze aziveze futhi aveze umbono wakhe ukuze kube
Indima enhle endaweni ezungezile lapho ekhula

Izazi zemfundo zeluleka ngokuthi ukukhulisa umntwana kufanele kubonakale ngokuqina, ukungathathi hlangothi, ukuhluzeka kwengqondo, ukuqina nobumnene, kugcizelele isidingo sokuba umntwana ezwe uthando, ukulondeka nokuphepha kubo bonke abamzungezile, futhi lokhu kushiya umthelela omuhle kakhulu ekuvuthweni kwayo ngokomzwelo. lapho eseyinsizwa ethonywa futhi ethonywa yilabo abaseduze kwayo.Esikhathini esizayo

Abazali kufanele bahlakaniphe, babe nesineke futhi babekezele, futhi bangazabalazi ukujezisa ingane.
Indlela yokukhulisa izingane kufanele iguquguquke futhi ivumelane nezimo ngokwezidingo zomntwana ngamunye ngokwehlukana.Akungabazeki ukuthi imfundo esekelwe othandweni, ububele, isikhuthazo nokwazisa ukuze bathole ikhono lokusabela ezinhlelweni ezilandelwayo ithela izithelo ezinhle ezinhlobonhlobo. izigaba zokuphila