Yini ekwenza uzonde umuntu omthandayo?

Ngokuvamile okwenzekayo ukuthi ekuqaleni sithanda inkampani yomuntu futhi siqala ukuthanda izinto ezincane njengokuhleka amahlaya akho, babambe isandla sakho ngenkathi uhamba esidlangalaleni, bakwenza uzizwe ukhululekile eduze kwakho, bayakweseka kuyo yonke imizamo, njll. futhi siyabona ukuthi lolu “uthando” ngoba lunokuthambekela komuntu, ikakhulukazi kwabobulili obuhlukile.

Uma abanye abafana namantombazane beqala ukuchitha isikhathi ndawonye njengomngane kuyanelisana futhi kuba umkhuba ukuchitha isikhathi ndawonye. Uma singahlangani nalo muntu, sizwa sengathi kukhona okushodayo ohlelweni lwakhe. Ngemva kwalokhu omunye umuntu ngokuvamile uzophakamisa futhi asamukele isiphakamiso bese kuqala ubuhlobo.

Uma singena ebudlelwaneni, siqala ukugcina okulindelwe komunye nomunye, ukufona nokuxoxa ebusuku kakhulu, ukumakana ezithombeni ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, ukuphawula njalo, njll.

Inzondo iqala lapho umfana noma intombazane ilindele okuthile komunye nomunye futhi lapho izithakazelo zabo zingahambelani, baqala ukuzondana. Lokhu okulindelekile nokuphoxeka kuhlezi kuvela futhi sakha isithombe emqondweni womuntu lowo muntu ongavumelani nami ngaso sonke isikhathi.

Ngokuvamile abafana babheka izingwegwe futhi bacabange ukuthi bangena ebudlelwaneni abazobuthola ngokomzimba nanoma yini, futhi ekupheleni kwalokho balimaza intombazane ngokomzwelo.

Ngokufanayo namantombazane, bazobe bethandana nabantu abahlukene ngesikhathi esisodwa. Abafana baqhubeka besebenzisa imali futhi bemthengela izipho futhi intombazane ilokhu isebenzisa imali yabafana ukuthenga nokunethezeka okuhlukahlukene njengokudla ezindaweni zokudlela ezinezinkanyezi njll.

Konke lokhu kuholela ekuzondeni insizwa noma intombazane ebithandana ngempela nomunye umuntu.