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U-Nour Hisham Selim ekubonakaleni kwakhe kokuqala ngemva kokuguqulwa kocansi futhi ulandisa ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe

UNour Hisham Selim udalule izingqinamba ezingokwengqondo nezenhlalo abebhekana nazo ngesikhathi engumuntu wesifazane, egcizelela ukuthi wacishe wazibulala ngoba engenalutho oluthinta yena, kodwa impilo yakhe. ishintshile Ngemva kokuthatha isinqumo sokushintsha kusukela kowesifazane kuya kowesilisa

Nour Hisham Selim

UNour wanezela esigcawini sakhe sokuqala ephuma noJaafar Abdel Karim ku-Twitter: Bengicabanga ukuzibulala ngoba akekho ongiqondayo futhi angizange ngihlangabezane nesimo esifana nesami, ikakhulukazi e-Egypt.

U-Hisham Selim ukhuluma ngendodakazi yakhe uNoura, owaba nguNour futhi waba i-transgender

Futhi angikwazanga ukunquma lutho empilweni yami yangasese, kepha ngemuva kwe-transgender nganquma ukubuyela ezinyaweni zami futhi ngiphile impilo yami nothando. Mina uqobo.

UNour, indodakazi ye-transgender ka-Hisham Selim

UNour uveze ukuthi uyise uke wabonisana naye ngaphambi kokukhuluma ngodaba lokushintshwa kobulili, wathi: “Wangibuza ubaba, ungathanda ukusho ukuthi uma udaba lwakho luvuliwe, ngathi akakhulume iqiniso?

UNour, indodakazi ye-transgender ka-Hisham Selim

Waphawula ukuthi manje usenguNoor futhi uhlala phakathi kwabantu njengendoda, kodwa usesemaphepheni asemthethweni, uNora wesifazane, ngakho-ke akakwazi ukwenza noma yimuphi umsebenzi, ngoba wonke amaphepha adingekayo adinga isinqumo sokugunyaza ukuguqulwa kwami. kowesilisa.

Yiziphi izimbangela zobuhlongandlebe ezinganeni ezisakhula?

U-Hisham Selim uphawule ngokusabela okungekuhle ngokushesha nje lapho ememezela ukuguqulwa kobulili kwendodakazi yakhe isuka kowesifazane iye kowesilisa, egcizelela ukuthi akekho onelungelo lokumbeka icala noma indodana yakhe uNour ngesinqumo sakhe.

Wanezela: INkosi yethu iyodwa iyodwa esithwesa icala, futhi akekho onelungelo lokugxambukela ezimpilweni zabanye.

Kubikwa ukuthi umdwebi u-Hisham Selim udalule ukuthi indodakazi yakhe uNoura isishintshe ucansi yaba ngowesilisa ogama lakhe linguNour, egcizelela ukuthi okwenzekayo “kuyintando kaNkulunkulu” futhi wenqaba ukudalula imininingwane yezokwelashwa, njengoba enqabile ukuxazulula iqiniso. ukuthi wayehlupheke kusukela ebuntwaneni bakhe ngenxa yokungalingani kwama-hormone okwakumbonisa esithombeni somfana.

U-Hisham Selim wengeze engxoxweni nomqondisi, u-Enas Al-Deghaidi, ohlelweni lwe-"Sheikh Al-Hara no-Al-Jari'a", ukuthi akazange amangale lapho odokotela becela ukuthi indodakazi yakhe ihlinzwe ukuguqulwa kocansi, ngoba selokhu azalwa uthwala isidumbu somfana hhayi intombazane, wathi ngangihlale nginokungabaza ngobulili bakhe.

Waqhubeka, wathi: Ngolunye usuku, uNoura wenza isinqumo sesibindi futhi wangitshela ukuthi uphila emzimbeni ngaphandle kweqiniso lakhe, futhi wacela ukwesekwa kwakhe ukuze abhekane nomphakathi owanqabayo amacala anjalo, futhi wayeneminyaka engu-18 ubudala esikoleni. isikhathi, futhi manje uneminyaka engu-26 ubudala, futhi ngavuma ngokushesha futhi ngamtshela, "Yini efunekayo kimi?"

Inkulumo ka-Hisham ngendodakazi yakhe iphenduke yaba okowesilisa, egcizelela ukuthi uyakwazisa ukudideka nemizwa yakhe eshayisanayo, neqhaza lakhe njengobaba lokumsiza, kanti u-Hisham waveza ukuthi kunenkinga ebhekene naye, okuwukungakwazi kwendodana yakhe ukuvuselela. ikhadi lakhe siqu ngoba uvinjelwe njengentombazane, kodwa ku-civil registry babona owesilisa phambi kwabo, futhi waphendukela kimi ukuba ngimsize emva kwesikhashana Ingxabano yeminyaka emibili ngoba ngenza iphutha izikhathi ezingaphezu kwesisodwa futhi umphathe okwentombazane.

Futhi u-Enas Al Degheidy ubuze umbuzo ku-Hisham Selim, ingabe ungubaba ohlulekile futhi amadodakazi akho awakuthandi? U-Hisham Selim waphendula wathi, angicabangi ukuthi ngingubaba owahluleka, futhi kungenzeka ukuthi abazange bangithande isikhathi eside, kodwa lapho sebekhulile bangithanda, nesizathu sokuthi kungani bengangithandi isikhathi eside. isikhathi eside kungenxa yokuthi ngaphakamisa izinto kubo futhi abazange baqonde.

USelim ugcizelele ukuthi amadodakazi akhe awakaze abone noma yimuphi wemisebenzi yakhe muva nje, kodwa manje aqala ukubona umsebenzi wami, futhi lokhu kungenzeka ngenxa yokujoyina kwawo izikole zakwamanye amazwe kusukela ebuntwaneni.

Uqhube wathi, “Angiboni ukuthi ngiwubaba owehlulekisiwe... ngingumuntu oqotho nocacile ngisho nasekusebenzelaneni kwami ​​nezingane zami, kodwa angiyena ubaba owehluleki futhi ngingaba “neqiniso elidala” ekuziphatheni kwabo. uzalo."

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