Ingabe ukhetha uthando lwengqondo noma uthando lwenhliziyo?

Umuntu uzizwa elondekile lapho ecabanga ukuthi usesimweni sothando oluphelele nolweqiniso oluqhubekayo nokuhamba kwesikhathi futhi olungabuni, kodwa ukuqaphela lolu thando kungase kube nzima, phakathi nokufuna kwethu uthando oluphelele oluqinisekisa ukuzinza kwengqondo ekuphileni. uma sithi uthando lwengqondo yilona oluphumelela kakhulu Lusekelwe ekuqondeni nasekucabangeni nasekufundeni imininingwane yomuntu ngamunye kanye nokuhambisana kwakhe nomunye.Siphinde futhi sithi uthando lwenhliziyo kuhle kakhulu kusiyisa endaweni yokungazi ngezenzo zethu, endaweni yokuzenzakalela nothando ngomunye, kude nobugovu futhi kude nezimfuneko.

Uyini umehluko phakathi kothando lwengqondo nothando lwenhliziyo? 

Lapho uthanda ngengqondo yakho

Ngokunganakwa okugcwele uthando lobunikazi nokulawula futhi kuyanda ngokuhamba kwezinsuku ukunamathela kanye nokuncisha umoya. Lapho ingqondo ilawula, uthando lunemibandela ezindinganisweni ezithile njengokubeka indlela yokubhekana nokubeka imithetho ukuze ilandelwe ngokuvumelana neqembu elilawulayo, ngakho-ke ukuthi impilo iyaqhubeka nokuba khona noma ngaphansi kwegama uma ungekho, khona-ke awungithandi. 

Lolu thando lwande kakhulu emiphakathini yethu, futhi kungenxa yombono okhona wokuthi ukuhlalisana kuyisisekelo somshado futhi yonke eminye imizwa izoshabalala kamuva.Umnikelo omkhulu kakhulu ekusabalaleni kwalolu hlobo lokwaneliseka kungaba ifa lenhlalakahle.

Lapho uthanda ngenhliziyo yakho

Linwebeka njengesibhakabhaka ngalowo omthandayo futhi uzwe umoya nenkululeko.Lomuzwa awushabalali uma ungokoqobo, kodwa le njabulo ihlala impilo yonke.Lapho usithanda ngokusuka enhliziyweni, ngeke wazi logic noma ukuhlakanipha. lolu thando awuphawuli,awulawuli,noma unobugovu.Ubona ngamehlo ubuhle nothando ngenhliziyo,ubona amaphutha uwathande.Njengoba lunjalo futhi alulwi ukushintsha noma yini nomunye,lapho le mizwa ingokoqobo futhi iqotho, ayibuni, kodwa iguqula zonke izinhlobo zayo ibe yimizwa ephakeme kakhulu ekhulisa umuntu konke okuhle.