Ingabe uthando lungaphenduka i-addiction..yini ukujwayela komuntu..futhi singakugwema kanjani ukubamba?

Ngokuvamile igama elithi ukulutheka lihlobene nokujwayela izidakamizwa noma utshwala noma ezinye izinto ezinjengoswidi noma ushokoledi... Kodwa ungase ube umlutha womuntu ungazi futhi le nkulumo ichaza isimo sakho sokubambelela kothile ngokulahlekelwa isithakazelo sakho. futhi uziduduze ngokwesaba ukulahlekelwa nguye, Uma ujwayele ukujwayela umuntu empilweni yakho, sengathi uhlala uncike emthanjeni okushayayo, okubangela ukuba uphile, futhi uma uwushiya sengathi unqamule lomthambo, kufanele ubhekane nenkinga ukuze uzivikele.

Yini ebangela ukulutheka kwabantu:

Imvamisa umuntu usuke eseluthekile wumuntu osuke ethanda abantu, kodwa umuntu ngamunye usuke ethathekile eyedwa, kuthi uma ehlukana naye afune omunye umuntu oseluthekile kuyena ngamandla afanayo, ngenxa ye-psychological. ubuhlungu nokulahlekelwa ububele kanye nomuzwa wokuphepha ebuntwaneni, lokhu kubangela ukuntula ukuzethemba Kumuntu, kwanele ukunakwa okulula okuvela kumuntu ukwenza umuntu ongenalo ububele ebuntwaneni abe umlutha kuwe futhi akwenze ube nakho konke impilo yakhe.
Lesi simo siyasiqaphela, mhlawumbe nomngane noma ilungu lomndeni, kodwa sivame ukukuthola ebuhlotsheni phakathi kowesifazane nendoda, ikakhulukazi emazweni ethu ama-Arab, lapho owesifazane enomuzwa wokuthi akanamandla futhi akakwazi ukwenza lutho ngaphandle indoda futhi incike ngokuphelele kuye, okudala umuzwa wokwesaba nokulahlekelwa Uma le ndoda ishiya impilo yakhe, ingumthombo wokuphila kwakhe ngokuphelele.
Umuntu onobugovu ufuna ukwenza omunye abe buthakathaka futhi amenze ahlale emdinga njalo ezenza enamandla ukuze akwazi ukumlawula, kuyilapho oqondile efuna ukuba umlingani wakhe aqine futhi athembele kuye ngokwakhe ngenkathi emi ngakuye. nciphisa imithwalo yakhe.

Ubhekana kanjani nale nkinga:

Zama ukuzinakekela ngokomoya, ngokwenyama, nempilo ngenxa yakho, hhayi nje ukumjabulisa.
Zithande, uncome, futhi unikeze ilungelo lokuthandwa ngabanye.
Yenza ubudlelwano bakho bube buningi futhi ungabuqedi, okusho ukuthi nginomngane owanele wasemhlabeni noma nginenkosikazi noma umyeni.Kukhona umndeni, omakhelwane, umsebenzi, nezinto zokuzilibazisa zobudlelwano bomphakathi ezigcina ibhalansi yakho. ubuntu, ukuzethemba kanye nokuvuthwa ekusebenzelaneni.
Ungakubukeli phansi ukuziphatha okubi kuwe njengokuzithethelela ngenxa yothando lwakho ngaye.Uma ungazihloniphi, akekho ozokuhlonipha, ngisho nalabo abaluthekile. Akekho onelungelo lokuphazamisa impilo yakho. Kumelwe ube nawe ngempela.”

Ungesabi ukulahlekelwa yikho, ngoba ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa okuthile kubangela ukulahlekelwa kwayo okuqondile.

Ungazitsheli ukuthi omunye ngeke akwazi ukuphila ngaphandle kwakho, ngakho-ke lungele ukudela injabulo yakho nenduduzo ngenxa yakhe.

Wonke umuntu empilweni yakho uyingxenye yayo, hhayi impilo yakho yonke.Uma omunye wenu ehamba, uzolahlekelwa ingxenye yezingxenye zempilo yakho egcwele, hhayi yonke into onayo.

Khumbula ukuthi izingoma, amamuvi, nochungechunge lukhuluma ngothando oluphelele olungekho eqinisweni.Akufani nesimo sakho ukuze uzifake kuso.

Noma nini lapho uzizwa ubuthakathaka phambi komuntu, phinda olimini lwakho, "O Nkulunkulu, ungayinamathiseli inhliziyo yami ngaphandle kwakho."

hlela ngu

URyan Sheikh Mohammed