Ingabe uthando lungaphenduka lube umlutha

Ngokuvamile igama elithi ukulutheka lihlobene nokujwayela izidakamizwa noma utshwala noma ezinye izinto ezinjengoswidi noma ushokoledi ... kodwa ungase ube umlutha womuntu ungazi futhi le nkulumo ichaza isimo sakho sokubambelela kothile ngokulahlekelwa isithakazelo sakho. futhi uziduduze ngokwesaba ukulahlekelwa nguye, uma umlutha Ungumuntu empilweni yakho sengathi uhlala uthembele emthanjeni oshayayo obangela ukuba uphile, futhi uma uwushiya sengathi unqamule lomthambo, ngakho-ke kufanele ubhekane inkinga ukuzivikela.

Yini ebangela ukulutheka kwabantu:

• Imvamisa imbangela yokulutheka kwabantu wubuhlungu bengqondo, ukulahlekelwa ukuzwela, nokungazethembi ebuntwaneni.Lokhu kubangela ukungazethembi.Ukunakwa okulula okuvela kuwe kwanele ukwenza ukuntuleka kobubele ebuntwaneni kube umlutha kuwe futhi kukwenze ube nakho konke. empilweni yakhe.
• Siyaliqaphela leli cala, mhlawumbe nomngane noma ilungu lomndeni, kodwa sivame ukukuthola ebudlelwaneni phakathi kowesifazane nendoda, ikakhulukazi emazweni ethu ama-Arab, lapho owesifazane enomuzwa wokuthi akanakuzisiza futhi akakwazi ukwenza lutho ngaphandle kosizo. indoda futhi incike ngokuphelele kuye, okudala umuzwa wokwesaba nokulahlekelwa.Uma le ndoda iphuma empilweni yakhe, ingumthombo wempilo yakhe ngokuphelele.
• Umuntu onobugovu ufuna ukwenza omunye abe buthakathaka futhi amenze ahlale emdinga njalo ezenza enamandla ukuze akwazi ukumlawula, kuyilapho oqondile efuna ukuba umlingani wakhe aqine futhi athembele kuye ngokwakhe ngenkathi emi ngakuye. nciphisa imithwalo yakhe.

Ubhekana kanjani nale nkinga:

• Zama ukuzinakekela ngokomoya, ngokomzimba nangokwempilo ngenxa yakho, hhayi nje ukumjabulisa.
• Zithande futhi uzithande futhi uyinike ilungelo layo lokuthandwa ngabanye .
• Yenza ubudlelwano bakho bube buningi futhi ungabuqedi, okusho ukuthi nginomngane owanele wasemhlabeni noma nginenkosikazi noma umyeni.Kukhona umndeni, omakhelwane, umsebenzi, nezinto zokuzilibazisa zobudlelwano bomphakathi ezigcina ibhalansi yakho. ubuntu, ukuzethemba kanye nokuvuthwa ekusebenzelaneni.
• Ungakubukeli phansi ukuziphatha okubi kuwe njengokuzithethelela ngenxa yothando lwakho ngaye.Uma ungazihloniphi akekho oyokuhlonipha ngisho nalabo abaluthekile.Akekho onelungelo lokuphazamisa ukuthula kwakho. "Ufanele ngempela kuwe."

• Ungesabi ukulahlekelwa yikho, ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa okuthile kubangela ukulahlekelwa kwayo okuqondile.

• Ungazitsheli ukuthi omunye ngeke akwazi ukuphila ngaphandle kwakho futhi yingakho ukulungele ukudela injabulo yakho nenduduzo ngenxa yakhe.

• Wonke umuntu empilweni yakho uyingxenye yayo, hhayi impilo yakho yonke.Uma omunye wenu ehamba, uzolahlekelwa ingxenye yezingxenye zempilo yakho egcwele, hhayi yonke into onayo.

• Khumbula ukuthi amaculo, amamuvi, nemidlalo ewuchungechunge ikhuluma ngothando oluphelele olungekho ngempela.Akufani nokuthi udaba lwakho luzifake kulo.