Ubhekana kanjani nendoda enenkani?

Lesi sici singesinye sezici ezivame kakhulu, ikakhulukazi kumuntu wasempumalanga.

Awukwazi ukushintsha isimilo somunye umuntu, ngakho kumele umamukele njengoba enjalo, kodwa kunezinyathelo ezithile ezizokwenza ukhohlwe ngenkani yakhe futhi wenze impilo yakho naye ibe lula futhi ijabule.

Nakhu ukuthi ngingubani uSalwa lezi zinyathelo:

Ukuthuthukisa ubudlelwano bakhe nalabo abamzungezile:

Zama ukuqinisa ubuhlobo bakho naye futhi uqinise ubudlelwano bakhe bokuxhumana nabantu ukuze athole amakhono okukhuluma nokukhulumisana nabanye futhi akwazi ukulalela futhi amukele imibono yabanye.

- Ukungabi nokuphuthuma:

Kumele uqaphele ukuthi umuntu onenkani uzonda ukuphuthuma nezicelo eziphindaphindiwe, ngakho-ke gwema ukuphuthuma ezicelweni zakho uma kwenzeka enqatshwa, ngoba inkani izokwandisa inkani.

Gwema ukumthethisa:

Ungamsoli ngezinqumo azithathe eyedwa ebezingalungile nokumenza azizwe ebaluleke kakhulu ukwabelana nawe ngezinqumo.

Yamukele njengoba injalo.

Zama ukukwamukela njengoba kunjalo ngaphandle kokufuna ukushintsha intukuthelo yakhe.

Khuluma naye ngomoya ophansi nangothando

Uzokuphendula, ameseke futhi amkhuthaze kuzo zonke izinyathelo azithathayo

Hlakanipha naye.

Ukuziphatha okuhlakaniphile kubonakala ngokungahlangani nenkani nenkani nokuklabalasa ngokuklabalasa, ngisho noma enephutha.Myeke aze athule yedwa, bese ubuyela kuye futhi uzame ukumkholisa ngombono ofanele.

Futhi khumbula njalo ukuthi ukunethezeka akusho ukuthobela izimfuneko zakhe nokuzithoba embonweni wakhe, kodwa kunalokho ukuthi ungumuntu obalulekile futhi uzama konke okukuwe ukuze amkhiphe unomphela inkani yakhe, noma ukunciphisa ulaka lwakhe. inkani.