Izimpawu eziyisikhombisa zokuthi uyakuthanda

Ukuba neqiniso kusukela ekuqaleni, hhayi ukuqamba amanga, ukuphikisa, noma ukusabalalisa:
Ukukholelwa ukuma kwakhe, izenzo, amazwi namazwi, amadoda amaningi akhuluma ngothando alubambe ezifubeni zawo nangobuqotho bemizwa yawo ngabesifazane.Inkomba yokuba ngokoqobo kwemizwa ayishoyo.

Ukhuluma ngawe lapho ungekho futhi uzama ukukusho ngezihloko ezihlukahlukene:
Ukukhuluma okuningi ngomuntu amthandayo, ngoba uma umuntu ethanda okuthile ngaphezu kokukusho, futhi ukukhuluma okuningi kubhekisela egameni lakhe, nokukhuluma ngobuntu bakhe, izinto azithandayo, nanoma yini ehlobene naye.

Amehlo akhe ayacwebezela ukukubona:
Amehlo anokukhanya nokucwebezela okwehlukanisa abathandi kwabanye.Ngokubona izimfihlo zamehlo, lesi sici sithathwa njengesinye sezici zezithandani, khona-ke singakwazi ukuhlukanisa phakathi komthandi weqiniso nesithandwa mbumbulu.

umuzwa wangaphakathi:
Uthando lunamandla kanye ne-aura yemizwa ezungezile umnikazi wayo, futhi kuphela owesifazane onobudlelwane bothando nokusondelana nendoda, njengomkakhe, ongahlukanisa la mandla.

Uhlala ebuza ngawe futhi uhlezi ekhuluma nawe:
Umuntu oluthando okufanele luhlukaniseke, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi lungokoqobo noma cha, singaluhlola ngokuziphatha kwakhe nangemizwa yakhe.Umuntu onothando olusuka enhliziyweni nolaziyo iqiniso lothando ngumuntu onomusa kunabo bonke ekuphathweni nasekuziphatheni kwakhe. athambile ngamazwi, futhi uyena obuza kakhulu ngesimo sothandiweyo wakhe, futhi uyena omkhumbulayo uma engekho futhi azi ukuthi aziguqule izimo zakhe Indlela abukeka ngayo nangendlela akhuluma ngayo.

Ukhumbula izikhathi ezibalulekile kuwe, njengosuku lwakho lokuzalwa kanye nosuku lomhlangano wakho wokuqala:
Ukwazi izikhathi nezinto ezithandwa owesifazane kuwumnyombo wolwazi lwendoda ngesithandwa sayo.Akunangqondo ukusho ngendoda ukuthi imthanda ngempela umkayo, ngokwesibonelo, futhi akazi ukuthi yiziphi izinjongo zakhe noma umbala awuthandayo. kukhona, noma mhlawumbe abanye babo abazazi izikhathi zakhe ezibaluleke kakhulu, njengosuku lwakhe lokuzalwa.

Uzimisele ngobudlelwano bakhe nawe futhi uhlose ukusebenzelana nawe ngokusemthethweni:
Uthando lwendoda lwaziwa othandweni lwayo ngowesifazane, okumele kube wuthando oluqotho nolusemthethweni futhi. Ngoba uthando olungasekelwe ebudlelwaneni obusemthethweni luwuthando olungalungile futhi oludalelwe ukushabalala ezikhathini eziningi, futhi ukuze indoda igcine isithunzi sowesifazane nombono wabantu ngaye, akunangqondo ukuba indoda ifune uthando lowesifazane. omcasulayo ngesimo sakhe sengqondo ngakuye noma ngokubeka ubuhlobo babo esimweni Ingxabano namazwi abanye.