Lahla ububi obukuzungezile futhi ubuyisele injabulo kuwena

• Okubaluleke kakhulu ukwazi ukuthi injabulo ihlala kude nalabo abangafuni ukubona uhlangothi oluhle lwalokho abanakho futhi bagxilise amandla abo kulokho okungekuhle empilweni yabo, ngakho-ke qala ukukhetha umqondo owodwa esikhundleni somunye futhi wazi ukuthi ikhono lakho. ukufaka esikhundleni semicabango engalungile ngokuqondile kuhambisana nenjabulo yakho.
• Nquma ukuthi yiziphi izinto okufanele ubambelele kuzo nokuthi yiziphi okufanele uziyeke: Ukubambelela ezintweni ngokuvamile kusenza sibe buthaka futhi ukuziyeka kusenza sibe namandla.Ingabe into eyakuphatha kabi esikhathini esidlule ibalulekile ngempela kuwe manje? Nakanjani akunjalo.Ngokunjalo, okukuzwisa ubuhlungu okwamanje ngeke kukuthinte esikhathini esizayo.
• Thethelela noma kunjalo: izinto zenzeke ngendlela ezihloswe ngayo.Lapho ubambe intukuthelo entweni ethile noma komunye umuntu, izinto zizoba zimbi kakhulu kuwe bese ubopha leyonto ngesibopho esinamandla kunensimbi.Ukuxolela iyona ndlela yokuba ngaphandle kwentukuthelo nobuhlungu bakho, noma ngabe ukuthethelelwa akuqedi ubudlelwano.Obunye ubudlelwano abumiselwe ukuthi buqhubeke, kodwa thethelela noma kanjani.

• Yenza lokho ocabanga ukuthi kulungile: izinto eziningi ongakwazi ukuzenza, noma okungaba lula ukuzifinyelela, noma othile angase akuphoqe kuwe, kodwa azisifanele isikhathi sakho noma umzamo wakho, zithembe futhi usebenze.
• Yenza konke okuhle ongakwenza ngenani elikhulu labantu.Sonke isenzo sisuka othandweni nomusa ongenantshisekelo noma umgomo futhi sibuyela kumnikazi waso ngenjabulo.
• Ezintweni zakho zansuku zonke, ngokuvamile awuboni ukuthi umkhulu kangakanani, kodwa abanye abaseduze kwakho bayakubona.Uma othile esho into enhle kuwe, kuyinto efanele ukukhunjulwa ngaphezu kwanoma yini esengqondweni yakho.
• Kuhle ukuzwa abantu bekuncoma futhi bakukhumbule, kodwa akusona isisekelo sokuzethemba kwakho, futhi uma umuntu engakuncomi zincome, awudingi ukuthi abantu bakuhlole ngaso sonke isikhathi, ungumuntu obalulekile, qaphela amandla akho futhi ugxile kuwo.

• “Ukujabulisa abantu kuwumgomo ongafinyeleleki.” Awukwazi ukujabulisa wonke umuntu futhi akumele uzame, ngakho-ke ungabi nandaba namazwi abazondayo. Jabula futhi uziqhenye ngawe ngaphandle kokwahlulela abanye abakwenzayo ngawe. .Zijwayeze ukulalela ukutuswa nokugxeka okwakhayo futhi ungakunaki ukuhlukunyezwa okubi.
• Thola ukuthi yini ekushukumisela ukuba usondelane nomuntu wakho wasekuqaleni, khumbula ukuthi ngeke ukwazi ukukhula uma wenqaba ukushintsha futhi ushiye amafa.
• Impumelelo empilweni ngeyabantu abazifelayo ngabakwenzayo thola into ekujabulisayo ugxile kuyo.
• Umehluko phakathi kwakho nalokho okufunayo yizaba zokuthi uqhubeka uzinikela, uzithethelela ngokuhluleka kwakho ukuzuza lokho okufunayo.Uma unekhono ekubekeni izaba, kuyeke lokho ukuze uzivikele ekuhlulekeni.

• Ungazisoli ngamaphutha akho esikhathi esidlule futhi ungayeki ukwenza amaphutha, akwenza uhlakaniphe.Uma ufuna ukwenza okufanele yenza amaphutha amaningi.
• Ungavumeli ukwesaba kwakho izehlakalo ezidlule kuphazamise umphumela wekusasa lakho.Phila impilo yakho ngalokho okunikezwa namuhla, ungakulahlekele izolo.Khohlwa okulahlekele futhi ugxile kulokho okufundile.
• Wonke umcimbi ongafuneki (umuntu noma isimo) uyisango lokuya kuwena kweqiniso olandelayo, enguqulweni engcono nehlakaniphe ngawe.

• Awukwazi ukukhetha wonke umuntu ohlangana naye empilweni yakho, kodwa ungakhetha ukuthi ufuna ukuchitha isikhathi nobani, ngakho-ke bonga labo bantu abafika empilweni yakho bayenza yaba ngcono, futhi ubonge inkululeko onayo. ukuhamba kubantu abangakwenzi.
• Nethezeka, wenele wena, unakho konke okudingayo, wenza noma yini edingekayo, phefumula ujule, futhi uphile manje ngaleso sikhathi.