Ubhekana kanjani nokukuphatha kabi kwakhe?
Ubhekana kanjani nokukuphatha kabi kwakhe?
Lapho umthandi ephenduka othandweni okhathalelayo aye kumuntu ovamile ongenandaba noma onesithakazelo, kuchazwa kuphela njengokuphathwa kabi, njengoba lokhu kungenye yezinhlungu ezinkulu zabathandi .. Ngakho-ke, kufanele uziphathe ekuphenduleni ushintsho. ekuphatheni kwakhe:
1- Ungambonisi ukuthi ukhathazekile ngoshintsho lwakhe, noma ngabe uzibuza okuningi ngezizathu, wenze sengathi awunakile.
2- Uma wamshintsha nawe ngenhloso yokukuvusela ukukhathazeka, ungafezi inhloso yakhe yokukubona ukhathazekile, kodwa umnqobe ngokuzenza ongazi.
3- Gwema ukwahlulela ngoba impendulo ngeke ikugculise, angathola izaba ezingeke zikukholise, kodwa ezizokulimaza ngokwengqondo.
4- Ungamceli ukunakwa noma impatho yakhe ebikade ikhona, njengoba isidingo sinciphisa umdlandla wakhe.
5- Amadoda ajwayele ukuhamba uma izinkinga zanda futhi adinga isikhala senkululeko, mnike lesi sikhala ukuze abuyele kuwe ngokulangazelela.
6- Menze abe nomuzwa wokuthi uyamkhathalela, kodwa hhayi ngendlela eyihaba
I-7- Uma unomuzwa wokuthi lolu shintsho selube yindlela yokunganaki nokukhononda njalo ngazo zonke izenzo zakho, hlala kude nakho kancane futhi ngokuzola.
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