Ubhekana kanjani nomlingani obandayo?

Iningi labesifazane likhala ngabayeni babo ngokubanda kwempilo yabo yemizwa ngemuva komshado kanye noshintsho olukhulu phakathi kwezothando lokuqomisana naphakathi kwenqubo yempilo yasemshadweni nokuphila okubandayo nophathina aphenduka ukungezwani nezingcindezi zengqondo, pho yini ikhambi?

ukuqonda 

Kumele uqale ukhumbule ukuthi ukushesha nokuthandana ahlangana naye kwakungeyona inkohliso, kodwa ngemva komshado, asikho isidingo sokwenza umzamo omkhulu wokusondelana nawe, njengenkathi yokuqomisana nokujwayelana, ngakho waba. umbhangqwana oshadile, nobabili nibonisa uthando lwenu ngomunye ngaphandle komzamo noma amazwi.

yephula isimiso 

Ngemuva kwesikhathi somshado, umyeni uqala ukujwayela umkakhe ngezici nobuhle bakhe, ngisho nesithakazelo sakhe kuye, futhi yonke into iba ngokwemvelo kuye, ngakho-ke kufanele uhlale uvuselela ngangokunokwenzeka indlela yokuphila ohlala kuyo. nsuku zonke, njengoba kufanele uvuselele ukubukeka kwakho kanye nohlobo lwentshisekelo yakho kukho, ngoba Ukuba nokuziphatha okukodwa kunoma ibuphi ubuhlobo kuyisizathu esibaluleke kakhulu sokwenza kube yisicefe futhi kubanda.

Gwema ukuphuthuma

Isicelo esiqhubekayo sothando nokunakwa siyacasula, uma ufuna umyeni wakho azizwe enecala ukuze akubonise uthando lwakhe, le ndlela iphikisana, njengoba ikwenza ube buthakathaka futhi ngeke uhlangabezane nomphumela oyifunayo ngemva kwesicelo sakho sokunakwa, futhi lokhu kuzokwenza izinto zibe zimbi kakhulu kuwe, futhi ungase ukubheke lokhu njengenselele nokungabi nandaba nemizwa yakho Veza imizwa yakho ngaphandle kokuncenga imizwa futhi uzame ukumlalela ngokwengeziwe futhi ungamenzi noma yiziphi izinsolo ngokumelene naye njengokuthi: “Awusangithandi. ”, “Uyabanda”, “Awunamizwa”.

inkulumo eyakhayo

Sebenzisa amagama akhuthazayo afana nalawa: “Ngiyajabula ngalokho eningenzela kona”, “Ngiyaziqhenya ngomsebenzi wenu”, “Ngiyakuthanda lokhu kuziphatha kwenu”…. , lokho kumshukumisela ukuba ethule ngokwengeziwe imizwelo yakhe kuwe.

Kulungile ukuba nepikiniki

Qiniseka ukuthi uchitha isikhathi esihle nomyeni wakho njalo ngezimpelasonto ungekho ekhaya futhi ungaxoxi ngezinto ezikhathaza ikhaya, umndeni nomsebenzi, futhi leli yithuba elibalulekile lokukhuluma ngemizwa yakho futhi ngaleyo ndlela ushukumise imizwa yakhe futhi umphoqelele ukuba ayiveze. ngaphandle kokukubuza.

Hhayi ukulahla ithemba

Noma ngabe lokho kubonakala kunzima kangakanani noma usufinyelele ezingeni lokuphelelwa yithemba lokumshintsha nokuthi ukubanda kwakhe akunasixazululo, uzowuthola umphumela wemizamo yakho, njengoba nje wawuvusa imizwa yakhe ngaphambili, uyakwazi ukuyivuselela, kodwa kufanele uthole i-catalyst kuphela.

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