Ubhekana kanjani nomuntu ongakunaki ngobuhlakani?

Into ebuhlungu kakhulu ebudlelwaneni yilapho sihlangana nomuntu futhi simnika ingxenye enkulu yokunaka kwethu nemizwelo yethu, futhi ngemva kwesikhashana, ngesizathu noma ngaphandle kwesizathu, akushaya indiva, futhi ukunganaki kuyisenzo esinonya kakhulu nokulimaza ngokwengqondo kumuntu. futhi umgomo uwukwenza buthaka omunye umuntu ukuze amlawule noma angawunaki umphumela wangempela.Ukubanda kwemizwa kanye nalezi zimo ezimbili kubi kakhulu okuya esihogweni ebuhlotsheni, ngakho-ke kufanele sazi ukuthi singasabela kanjani kulesi senzo:

Uma ukwazi ukubhekana nalo muntu ngenkinga yakhe nawe futhi yiziphi izizathu zokungamnaki, yenzani, kodwa uma impendulo yakhe ithi akakushayi indiva ngenkathi ezama ukukuqinisekisa ukuthi uyakhohlisa, yeka ukuzama ukuxazulula ngendlela. yesiyalo bese uya empendulweni
Impendulo yokunganaki kufanele kube ukugodola futhi ungagcizeleli ukubamba umuntu ongakunaki

Akufanele udonsele ukunaka komuntu ukuthi ukushaya indiva okwesikhashana, njengokungathi udalula uhlelo lwakho kuye, ngakho imiphumela izobe iphikisana nawe.
Nakekela ukubukeka kwakho njengokungathi usesimweni esihle kakhulu somqondo futhi uphume nabangane, kodwa ungakwenzi lokhu ukuze uvuse isikhwele sakhe, kodwa ngoba uzokujabulela futhi ngeke unciphise ukucabanga kwakho ekulindeni izingcingo zakhe.

- Ngesinye isikhathi ubuthakathaka, ungase uthambekele ekuzikhuzeni futhi kufanele uthwale ukuhlukaniswa nabanye kuwe, ungakwenzi lokho, kodwa kuyicala lokuzithethelela ngobuthakathaka bakho nokuzinikela.
- Ungabi luhlaza ngendlela yokwenqaba, njengokukhansela ucingo noma ukucisha ifoni yakho, kunalokho, yenza sengathi uyalujabulela ucingo lwakhe futhi sengathi awunaki ukubanda kwakhe kuwe, okunikeza kuye umbono wokuthi ujabule futhi unamandla
Ukuziba okufanele ukujwayeze, vele uyeke ngokuphelele ukumthola futhi uyeke ukukuqalisa ngocingo noma umlayezo.

Uma uphendula ukunganaki ngokuziba yazi ukuthi umuntu ozomziba uzomcasukela ngoba umuntu osuke enganaki usuke elinde ukukubona uphelelwa amandla wasula futhi akavumi ukushaywa indiva mhlawumbe uzocasuka. nawe ngenye indlela ngaphandle kokuziba
Gwema ukuxabana naye uma ezama ukukhombisa intukuthelo yakhe ngale nto oyenzile bese ekutshela ukuthi ungumuntu omubi ngoba ungamnaki.

- Uma ebonisa intukuthelo yakhe kuwe, kusho ukuthi nguwe olawula ubuhlobo manje, futhi kufanele uzame ukuxoxisana naye, ukhulule intukuthelo yakhe, uxazulule izinkinga futhi ubuyisele ubuhlobo njengoba bunjalo ngaphandle kokumazisa ngohlelo lwakho. Akudingekile ukuthi unikeze izizathu zalokho okwenzile ngoba ubungeyena umqalisi futhi uma engazange alibone iphutha Lakhe, khona-ke, akukho ukuqonda, futhi uma kungekho ukuqonda, asikho isidingo sobudlelwane.

Kuhlelwe ngu

URyan Sheikh Mohammed