Ubhekana kanjani nomyeni okhohlakele ngokuhlakanipha?

Umuntu onenhliziyo embi akanalo izindinganiso futhi akazi umusa phambi kwalokho okuphathelene nesithakazelo sakhe, unobugovu futhi akasifezi isithembiso sakhe. Kunzima ukuvuma okuhle futhi kulula ukuphika umusa, ngoba okungalungile ngaye alikhohliwe, futhi okuhle naye akunakwa.

Futhi umyeni omnene nguye owenza ihaba ukusabela kwakhe esimweni sengqondo esingalungile esivela kuwe futhi engaboni ubuhle omenzela yona, ukubonga okuncane nokukhononda okuningi, ukuhlalisana nalolu hlobo lwamadoda kuba nzima futhi kudinga ukubekezela nokuhlakanipha okukhulu. ukuhlala naye, pho kunjani lokho?

Nginike ithuba

Impilo yabashadile idlula ezintweni eziningi ezikhathazayo nezimo ezenza izinhliziyo zibe lukhuni, ngakho-ke akulungile ukusola ubuntu bakhe ngobubi futhi awumnikezanga amathuba futhi wamsiza osizini lwakhe.

Engapheli amandla 

Ungenzi ihaba ekulahlekiseni amalungelo akho ukuze umanelise noma ngaphansi kwezaba lokuhlalisana ngokuthula.

Ungamnaki

Umuntu omnene uzama kanzima ukucasula omunye futhi aqaphe ukusabela ukuze enze okunye ukusabela okunamandla, ngakho-ke kuwukuhlakanipha ukungamniki izaba zalokho, kodwa ukukushaya indiva ukuphazamiseka kwakhe futhi abhekane nezenzo zakhe ezivusa inkanuko ngokuphola okuphelele. .

ukuqapha 

Ukubhekana nalolu hlobo lwamadoda akufanele kube ngokuzenzakalelayo futhi kulula, kodwa kufanele uqaphele noma yiliphi igama olikhulumayo, njengoba ehlale elindele noma yiliphi iphutha, ngisho nezindaba okhuluma ngazo ngomndeni wakho noma abangani bakho uyazigcina futhi akukhumbuze ngisho emva kweminyaka, ngakho ungazenzeli naye.

I-diplomacy 

Ngeke ukwazi ukuhlalisana nomuntu ovusa inkanuko ngaphandle kokuba ne-diplomacy eyanele eyenza ubhekane naye ngezinzwa zangempela hhayi zokwenziwa. Akunzima ukubhekana nezinkinga ngokusebenzisa inkhulumomphendvulwano evamile futhi enenzuzo eletha amaphuzu eduze nezinguquko. izimo zengqondo ezimbi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.

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