Pezani zifukwa zenizeni zomwe maubwenzi achikondi amalephera

Maubwenzi ndi chikondi nthawi zonse zimayenda kumverera ndi upscale ndi zodabwitsa zomverera, kupatula pamene kugwirizana popanda kuganiza kale kapena pa nthawi yolakwika kapena pamene kusankha molakwika, amakhala mwachindunji ndi mosalekeza chifukwa cha matenda a maganizo monga kuvutika maganizo ndi nkhawa.

Chifukwa chake, ndikuwonetsa kudzera m'nkhaniyi zinthu zofunika kwambiri zomwe zimabweretsa kulephereka kwa maubwenzi achikondi:

Zifukwa zosiyanasiyana zakulephera kwa maubwenzi achikondi:

1. Vuto likhoza kukhala kuti mtsikanayo sadziwa makhalidwe ake ndipo motero sakudziwa khalidwe lomwe lingakhale logwirizana ndi iye, kapena lingakhale chikhumbo chake cha kugwirizana mwamsanga (asanaphonye sitima), monga akunena, ndi motero mtsikanayo amakakamizika kuvomereza zololeza zambiri popanda chifukwa.
2. Chifukwa cha kulephereka kwa mayanjanowo kungakhalenso kusagwirizana kwamalingaliro kapena chikhalidwe kapena zilakolako ndi zilakolako komanso kulephera kuvomerezana kuti akwaniritse chigwirizano chomwe chimakwaniritsa mbali zonse ziwiri.
3. Kusintha: Ubale uliwonse, ngakhale utakhala wolimba bwanji, umafunika kukulitsa nthawi zonse ndikusintha zinthu zina zachizoloŵezi, koma kusinthaku kumakhala kokwanira kwa inu ndi mnzanuyo.

4. Kulankhulana ndi kukambirana: Kukambitsirana kosalekeza ndi kuyankhulana pakati pa maphwando awiri a chiyanjano ndikofunika kwambiri komanso kofunikira kuti ubalewu upitirire, ngati palibe kulankhulana pakati panu, aliyense wa inu adzaphunzira bwanji za mavuto ndi zinsinsi za wina!

5. Mwayi Wachiwiri: Nthawi zina kuchokera ku mphamvu ya chikondi ndi kugwirizana kwa wina wa maphwando ndi mzake, ngakhale zolakwa zake, amamupatsa mwayi wachiwiri kuti adzikonzere yekha ndi kukonza zolakwika zake, koma izi sizigwira ntchito nthawi zonse, kuti munthu asinthe mbali yake. khalidwe limene anali nalo kwa nthawi yaitali ndi lovuta kwambiri, likhoza kutenga nthawi yaitali ndipo silingagwire ntchito Komanso, musapatse munthu mwayi wachiwiri pamene muli otsimikiza kuti adzapitiriza zolakwa zawo kwa inu.

potsirizaPakuti munthu aliyense ali ndi theka lina lake, ndipo Mulungu adalenga munthu aliyense ndi kumulengera theka lake lina lomwe limammaliza ndi kupeza chitonthozo chake ndi iye.Musapitirire paubale umene simupeza chitonthozo ndi chisangalalo chifukwa cha mantha. Kusungulumwa, koma Mudzatsogozedwa ku zopatsa zanu (Zomwe Mulungu adakulemberani), ndipo mudzapeza mtendere ndi chisangalalo.