Kodi kusaka bwenzi osowa?

Kukhalapo kwa anthu abwino m'miyoyo yathu kuli ndi thanzi labwino, ali ndi mphamvu zambiri zotumiza katundu wamkulu wa mphamvu zabwino ngakhale mawu awo ndi ochepa, choncho kupezeka kwawo kumakhudza zonse za moyo wathu, kotero mumasiyanitsa bwanji amene ndi munthu wabwino ndikumusaka kuti akhale bwenzi lanu ndi makhalidwe awa?

1- Chiyembekezo chokhazikika komanso kukhala ndi chiyembekezo, mukamawapeza munthawi zovuta kwambiri, amasunga izi kwa iwo okha ndi ena.

2- Kulankhula momveka bwino komanso mophweka, pamene mukuwapeza kuti amakonda kugwiritsa ntchito mawu omveka bwino, osavuta kuti anthu onse amvetsetse popanda kupatula.

3- Amakonda anthu onse ndipo amaona udani, udani ndi kaduka ngati machimo osakhululukidwa, choncho sakwiyira aliyense, sada wina aliyense, ndiponso sachitira nsanje aliyense.

4- Mumapeza chitonthozo, bata ndi bata m’makhalidwe awo.

5- Anthu ambiri amawakonda ndipo amakondedwa kulikonse kumene amapita.

6- Amathandiza anthu kwaulere ndipo amaona kuti iyi ndi nkhani yowagwera pamapewa.

7- Umapeza kumwetulira ndi chisangalalo pankhope zawo ngakhale panthawi yamavuto.

8- Amakhala ndi kalembedwe kapadera komanso kokopa pamalankhulidwe awo ndi ena.

9- Amakopa anthu ndi momwe amawachitira, yomwe ili ndi chikondi, makhalidwe, ndi kuwolowa manja.

10- Amakonda kugwira ntchito zachifundo komanso zothandiza anthu nthawi zonse osauza ena za izo.

11- Amawerenga ndi kuwerenga mu nthawi yawo yopuma kuti achulukitse chidziwitso chawo ndi kuzindikira kwawo.

12- Amasamala za anzawo, achibale awo ndi mabanja awo mmene angathere, choncho umawapeza oyandikana nawo akuyandikira kwa iwo.

13- Supeza mwa iwo zachabe ndi kudzikuza, koma uona kulimbika ndi kudzichepetsa kuonekera m’makhalidwe awo.

14- Amalimbikitsa ena kutsata zolinga za moyo wawo ndikuwathandiza kutero.

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