Ungahlukana kanjani nomuntu othandana naye?
Akekho ofuna ukuqhela kumuntu amthandayo nathandana naye, kodwa ingcindezi yengqondo edalwa yilolu thando ikuphusha ukuthi usuke ngenkani, mhlampe impatho yomunye umuntu kuwena iyakuphusha ukuthi ukwenze lokho. unomuzwa wokuthi kufana nokunqamula umoya-mpilo kuwe futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo uphoqelelwe Ukwenza lesi sinqumo, ungazisiza kanjani ukuba usuke kumuntu omthandayo?
Wahlonipheni amathuba
Impela, ngaphambi kokuthi nithathe isinqumo sokuhlukana niveze inqwaba yamathuba nemvumelwano engazange isebenze, kodwa empeleni, uma nehaba ekuvezeni amathuba, niziveza ngokwesaba ukuhlukana futhi ngethemba lokuthuthukisa lokho okonakalayo. , kodwa umphumela ngokuvamile uphambene nesifiso sakho, ngakho zihloniphe futhi weqe ukunikeza amathuba lapho engasenamsebenzi.
shintsha inkumbulo yakho
Shintsha yonke into ekwenza umlangazelele, njengoba ingqondo yakho izosabela oshintshweni oluphambi kwenhliziyo yakho. Isibonelo: njengokushintsha ukuma kwegama lakhe kumakhalekhukhwini.
yiba lukhuni
Bonisa ukuqina ngisho noma usesimweni esibuthaka kakhulu, njengoba lokhu kuzenza uqiniseke ukuthi ingakwazi ngempela ukunqoba le nkinga futhi uhlalisane nayo ngendlela enamandla.
ungalindi
Ukulinda kwakho kwansuku zonke ukusabela kwalo muntu mayelana nokuhamba kwakho kuyisici esibaluleke kakhulu esenza buthaka izinjongo zakho futhi sikwenze ube sengozini enkulu yokuwa ngokwengqondo usuku nosuku.
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