Ngenxa yokuthanda omunye umsebenzi, izingane, abangani, noma umndeni ngaphezu kwakhe, ngaphezu kokusho noma ukwenza lokho kunganciphisa ukubaluleka komlingani wakhe, ikakhulukazi uma lokho kuphambi kwezingane nomndeni, ngaphezu kwalokho ukugxila ngokuphindaphindiwe emalungelweni akhe kuphela, kanye nentshisekelo yakhe kuwo.Ngokunganaki amalungelo nezidingo zomunye uhlangothi, ukungazinaki, ukuzikhukhumeza kuye, nokumenza azizwe ephansi futhi ephansi.

Ezindabeni zezinto ezibonakalayo noma zokuziphatha, noma kulokho amnika kona ngesikhathi sakhe ngenjongo yokwanelisa izidingo zakhe, nokumjabulisa, noma kokubili ngomsebenzi wokubhekana nezingcindezi zezinto ezibonakalayo, nokuhlangabezana nezidingo zendlu nezingane; ukunganaki konke okungavusa inkanuko ngaphandle kokunaka kwabo; Okubangela ukuthi igebe phakathi kwabo likhule kancane kancane, futhi ukusondelana phakathi kwabo kungabibikho, noma kuphenduke inkambiso nje, noma umsebenzi obekwe kuye.

Lapho indoda noma inkosikazi ibheka amalungelo nezimfuneko zayo kuphela, bese ikhohlwa omunye uhlangothi, izidingo zayo, nezimfuneko zayo, futhi ukuphindaphindwa kwesimo esinjalo kuholela esimweni sokuhlukanisa noma ukuhlukana ngokomzwelo.

Ngokukhetha abanye kunomlingani wokuphila, futhi lesi esinye sezizathu ezibaluleke kakhulu zesehlukaniso esingokomzwelo, njengokuthi umyeni ukhetha umsebenzi wakhe, umndeni, izihlobo nabangane kunomkakhe, noma inkosikazi ikhetha umsebenzi wakhe, izingane, umndeni, nabangane phezu komyeni; Okwenza elinye iqembu lizizwe lingelutho.

Ukuguqula ubuhlobo bomshado bube yinkambiso, umsebenzi, noma isibopho.

Ubudoni buphakathi kwezinto ezibuye zibangele isehlukaniso esingokomzwelo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukonakala ngokwezinto ezibonakalayo, lapho indoda iphuca umkayo imali ayidingayo, noma ubuxhwanguxhwangu bokuziphatha, lapho abanye kulaba ababili bencishana ngokuqondene nezidingo zomunye. ngemizwa nokunaka. Endabeni yokukhohlakala komunye wabashadikazi, ubuhlobo bothando phakathi kwabo buqala ukoma, bahlukane ngokwemizwa.

Ukuntula kwendoda ikhono lokuveza okungaphakathi kuyo ngenkulumo; Ngokusho kokwakheka kwengqondo nenhlalakahle yomyeni, uhlala evame ukwenza izenzo ezingaphezu kwamagama, ngokungafani nowesifazane, ovame ukubhala imininingwane.

Isithukuthezi nokunganaki kunezinkomba ezinganqotshwa kalula. Uma kuqashelwa ngaphambi kokuba udaba lube lubi kakhulu; Lapho isithukuthezi siqala khona ngokuthula, izingeniso, ukungalaleli omunye ngesithakazelo, ukushintshashintsha kwemizwelo, nokwethuka, futhi ekugcineni umlingani ngamunye ukhetha indlela ehlukile yendlela yomunye; Lapha, ukuhlangana kudinga ukutakulwa okuphuthumayo.