Amaphutha ayishumi ezindleleni zemfundo, ungawenzi
Umkhaya uyindawo eyinhloko yokukhulisa umntwana ndawonye, futhi ziningi izindlela ezingalungile abazali abazilandela ngokungazi lapho bekhulisa izingane zabo.Lezi zinto abanye abazali abakholelwa ukuthi zilula, zibuthinta kakhulu ubuntu babo, futhi namuhla zivela ku-Anaslwa, eziyishumi ezibaluleke kakhulu. izindlela ezingalungile wonke umama nobaba abawela kuzo emfundweni:
1- Ukuvikela ngokweqile noma ukwesaba okwedlulele kubo nokubavimbela ekwenzeni umsebenzi othile wokuzilibazisa nokudlala ngaphansi kwezaba lokubesaba
2- Omunye wabazali, egameni lomntwana, wenza izibopho okufanele ingane izenze iyodwa
3- Hhayi ukuqinisa ukuzethemba kwakhe
4- Ukuqamba amanga ngokuqhubekayo phambi kwengane ngabazali kanye nokusetshenziswa kwamagama ahlambalazayo
5-Ukusebenzisa udlame, ukuklabalasa, ukushaya njalo nokuthuka ingane
6- Ukuncishwa okuphindaphindiwe ngenjongo yemfundo
7- Ukuthuka nokuthuka ingane uma yenza into engakugculisi
8- Ukuqhathanisa ingane nenye ingane
9- Idinga ukuthi ingane yenze imisebenzi engaphezu kwamandla ayo
10- Ukunganakwa okuqhubekayo kwabazali noma omunye wabo enganeni ngenxa yokuhlale ematasatasa.