Thola izizathu zangempela zokuthi kungani ubudlelwano bezothando buhluleka

Ubudlelwano nothando kuhlale kugeleza imizwa kanye nemizwa ephezulu nemangalisayo, ngaphandle uma ukuxhumana kungekho ukucabanga kwangaphambili noma ngesikhathi esingalungile noma lapho ukukhetha kungalungile, kuba imbangela eqondile neqhubekayo yezifo zengqondo ezifana nokucindezeleka nokukhathazeka.

Ngakho-ke, ngizokwethula ngalesi sihloko izinto ezibaluleke kakhulu eziholela ekuhlulekeni kobudlelwano bothando:

Izizathu ezahlukahlukene zokuhluleka kobudlelwano bothando:

1. Inkinga ingase ibe ukuthi intombazane ayizazi izici zobuntu bayo futhi ngaleyo ndlela ayimazi umlingiswa ongafanelana naye, noma kungase kube isifiso sayo sokuxhumana okusheshayo (ngaphambi kokuba igeje isitimela), njengoba besho, futhi ngakho-ke intombazane iphoqeleka ukuba yamukele izivumelwano eziningi ngaphandle kwesizathu.
2. Isizathu sokwehluleka kwenhlangano kungase futhi kube ukungafani kwengqondo noma amasiko noma ukuthambekela nezifiso kanye nokungakwazi ukuvumelana ukuze kufinyelelwe esivumelwaneni esinelisa zombili izinhlangothi.
3. Ushintsho: Bonke ubudlelwano, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi buqine kangakanani, budinga ukuthuthukiswa okuqhubekayo kanye noshintsho kwezinye izinto ezivamile, kodwa lolu shintsho lusesimweni esigculisayo sakho nomlingani wakho.

4. Ukuxhumana kanye nenkhulumomphendvulwano: Ukuxoxisana okuqhubekayo nokukhuluma phakathi kwezinhlangothi ezimbili zobudlelwano kubaluleke kakhulu futhi kubalulekile ukuze kuqhutshekwe lobo budlelwano, uma kungekho ukuxhumana phakathi kwenu, ngamunye wenu uzofunda kanjani ngezinkinga nezimfihlo zomunye!zempilo yakhe.

5. Ithuba lesibili: Ngezinye izikhathi kusukela ekujuleni kothando nokunamathela komunye wabathintekayo komunye, naphezu kwamaphutha akhe, umnika ithuba lesibili lokuzithuthukisa futhi alungise amaphutha akhe, kodwa lokhu akusebenzi ngaso sonke isikhathi.Futhi, unganiki umuntu okwesibili ithuba uma unesiqiniseko sokuthi bazoqhubeka namaphutha abo kuwe.

ekugcineniNgoba wonke umuntu unengxenye yakhe, futhi uNkulunkulu udale wonke umuntu futhi wamdalela enye ingxenye yakhe eqedayo futhi ethola induduzo kuye.Ungaqhubeki ebuhlotsheni ongayitholi induduzo nenjabulo ngenxa yokwesaba umzwangedwa, kunalokho, nizoholelwa ekulungiseni kwenu, lokho uNkulunkulu akunqumele kona, futhi nizothola ngakho ukunethezeka nenjabulo yenu.