Naka.. ubuntu bakho buthinta impilo yakho

Umuntu uyinqwaba yemizwa nemizwelo, ethonywa izici eziningi, okuhlanganisa izici zangaphakathi nezangaphandle. Ucwaningo luveze ukuthi ubuntu kanye nesimo somuntu singathinta impilo yakhe. Thola kulesi sihloko ukuthi ubuntu bakho buyithinta kanjani impilo nomzimba wakho:
izinqumo zezempilo
*Ubuntu obungacabangi:

Ingabe unenkinga yokulinda? Ingabe ubudedengu ekuthatheni izinqumo? Lezi yizici zobuntu obungamawala. Unovalo futhi ukhungathekile kaningi, futhi uthambekele kakhulu ekuziphatheni okuyingozi ngenxa yokuthatheka kwakho. Kulo mongo, ochwepheshe bakholelwa ukuthi kungenzeka kakhulu kunabanye ukuthi ube nezilonda ze-peptic. Abacwaningi bakholelwa ukuthi umuntu ogijimayo ugcina i-asidi eningi esiswini, okwandisa amathuba okuba nezilonda.

Ubuntu obunethemba:

Ukulindela okuhle nokuba nethemba kudlala indima ebalulekile kubuntu bakho. Unethemba futhi awulindele lutho ngaphandle kokuhle ezintweni ozenzayo ekuphileni. Njengoba nje uzimisele ukuthatha ubungozi kanye nezibopho, awukwazi ukulawulwa ukwesaba okubi kakhulu. Ngakho, ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuthi abantu abanethemba lokuhle mancane amathuba okuba babe nesifo senhliziyo kunalabo abangenathemba.

Umuntu othanda ukujabulisa abanye:

Ingabe unendaba kakhulu nemibono yabanye abantu? Ingabe uhlale ufuna indawo ephakathi ukuze ubajabulise futhi ucabangele imizwa yabo? Ingabe ukuthola kunzima ukuzinakekela futhi wenze okukujabulisayo ngaphandle kokuphazanyiswa kwangaphandle? Qaphela ukuthi kungenzeka kakhulu kunabanye ukuthi uzizwe ucindezelekile futhi ukhathele.

*Ubuntu obunamahloni:

Uma ungathandi ukuhlanganyela nabantu futhi ungazizwa ukhululekile uma usemaqenjini amakhulu, uvame ukuba nobuntu obunamahloni. Awukhulumi ngokukuhluphayo futhi uncamela ukuthembela kuwena kunokuba wabelane nabanye. Ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi amahloni angase aphazamise ukusebenza kwamasosha omzimba, futhi lokhu kungase kuhlotshaniswe nokwanda komsebenzi wesimiso sezinzwa esinozwela. Ukusuka lapha, maningi amathuba okuthi ubambe izifo ezibangelwa amagciwane kanye nemikhuhlane.

Ubuntu be-Neurotic:

Ingabe uyashesha ukuthukuthela futhi uthukuthele ngokushesha? Ingabe uhlale uzizwa usongelwa futhi uvame ukunikeza izinto nezinkinga ukubaluleka okukhulu kunalokho eziyikho? Qaphela ubuntu bakho bemizwa, obuthinta kakhulu impilo yenhliziyo yakho. Ucwaningo luye lwabika ukuthi ukucindezeleka ngokweqile kungase kubangele isifo senhliziyo nokufa kungazelelwe.
Ubuntu obuqotho nobusobala:

Ngokuqinisekile unomthwalo wemfanelo, uhlakaniphile, ulungile futhi wenqaba ukungabi nabulungisa. Futhi unaka imininingwane emincane futhi wenqabe ukukopela nokukhohlisa. Ngakho-ke, awuzibeki engozini futhi unakekele kakhulu ukuphepha nempilo yakho. Abacwaningi bakholelwa ukuthi abantu abanalobu buntu baphila isikhathi eside.

Kuhlelwe ngu

URyan Sheikh Mohammed