Ulugwema kanjani ulaka lwendoda enomona?

1- Kumele uqale uhlukanise ukuthi wuhlobo lomhawu, noma wuhlobo lokulawula nokubusa.

2- Ungabi nehaba ekukhulumeni ngomuntu, ngoba yikhona okuvusa isikhwele sakhe futhi kumcasule.

3- Hamba naye ukuze azizwe eqiniseka futhi ephephile, lapho umcela ukuba wabelane nabangane bakho, uzozizwa enduduzo nokuqinisekiswa.

4- Phendula yonke imibuzo yakhe, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ikucasula kangakanani, futhi ungabonisi noma yikuphi ukushuba, ngoba lokhu kuzophakamisa ukungabaza kwakhe nomona.

5- Bhekana nokuziphatha kwakhe okuvusa inkanuko ngendlela ezolile futhi ukuqede nge-diplomacy kude nenselelo, futhi ungamvumeli azizwe sengathi ukhathele yikho.

6- Umenze ezwe isikhwele sakho nangaye.Lokhu kuthulisa ubuhlanya bakhe, umnake kakhulu ukuze angasitholi isizathu somona wakhe.

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Ubhekana kanjani nendoda engakwazi ukubaluleka kwakho futhi engakuthandi?