Ukhuluma kanjani nengane yakho?

Abaningi bethu bafisa ukuthi aphumelele ukukholisa izingane zakhe ngalokho akufunayo, noma enze inkhulumomphendvulwano ephumelelayo nenezithelo, ngakho-ke, kunamaphuzu abalulekile nabalulekile ekufinyeleleni okudingekayo:

Ungamemezi noma uphakamise izwi lakho ngaphezu kokujwayelekile, vele usebenzise ithoni yokugunyaza ukukhawulela ukuziphatha okubi.

Zama ngangokunokwenzeka ukukhuluma nengane yakho ngendlela eyakhayo, kunokuba uhlale umtshela lokho okungafanele akwenze, mtshele ukuthi yini okufanele ayenze, esikhundleni sokuthi “cha” kuye, beka isandla sakho esingcolile esihlalweni, uthi kuye. , “Asigeze izandla zakho manje njengoba zingcolile bese sihlala.” esihlalweni ukuze akufundele indaba).

Ungayitsheli ingane yakho amanothi akho ngokuzumayo, njengoba ukusabela kwayo kuyoba nje ukumelana.

Ungasebenzisi amagama ahlambalazayo noma ubize ingane ngezimfanelo ezimbi, mbonise ngokucacile ukuthi ukuziphatha kwakhe okubi yilokho ongathandi, hhayi yena.

Uma ingane yakho ikuthethisa ungayiphakamiseli nezwi lakho, akusizi, vele uyitshele ukuthi ingakhulumi nawe kanjalo.

Ungaqhathanisi ingane nabanye, akusizi ngalutho.

Ungayiyeki ingane ngokuthile uma ithukuthele.

Nweba ingxoxo yakho nengane, mvumele afunde ulimi lwakho lomzimba futhi ajabule futhi ajabule engxoxweni yakho naye.

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