Ubhekana kanjani nokwesaba kwakho futhi ukuqede?

Ubhekana kanjani nokwesaba kwakho futhi ukuqede?

Abanye abantu banomuzwa wokuthi kunezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu eziphakamisa ukukhathazeka nokwesaba kwabo, lapho ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kungenasidingo ngokuphelele noma kubalulekile, ngokusho kombiko oshicilelwe yi-Hack Spirit. Ochwepheshe bayeluleka ukuthi ungazinaki okunye ukwesaba noma izimbangela eziningi zokukhathazeka ezingabalulekile ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kanje:

1. Ukubambezeleka kwesikhashana

Ungathuki lapho uhlangabezana nokulibaziseka kwesikhashana ekuqedeni imisebenzi ethile, amaphrojekthi, noma imigomo. Ukuzizwa ucindezelekile kancane phakathi nezikhathi zokucindezeleka okunjalo kukusiza ukuthi ubambe futhi ufinyelele umgomo owufisayo.

2. Amaphutha esikhathi esidlule

Imizwa ejulile yokudumala namahloni ngenxa yanoma ibuphi ububi besikhathi esidlule noma isimo esibangela amahloni iyodlula. Kunalokho, umuntu uyohleka ngemva kweminyaka lapho ephenduka inkumbulo nje yesenzakalo esidala.

3. Ukukhubazeka okuncane ngokomzimba

Ezweni eligcwele ukubukeka okuhle, kulula ukulengiswa "amaphutha" amancane. Kodwa okungase kubonakale kuyisici kungase kube yilokho okuyenza ikhange ngokukhethekile.
Ngakho-ke, akukho ukuphawula okungokomzimba okufanele kwenze umuntu azizwe ecindezelekile futhi ekhathazekile ngoba omunye umuntu umthanda ngenxa yalokho ayikho, hhayi indlela abukeka ngayo.

4. Ukufuna ukuphelela ekwenzeni izinto

Yebo, akekho okhuthazwayo ukuthi enze umsebenzi ophansi noma obudedengu, konke kumayelana nokulwela ukwenza kahle, kodwa ngaphandle kokuchitha isikhathi uzama ukwenza izinto ngokuphindaphindiwe. Kufanele ugxile ekwenzeni inqubekelaphambili futhi ujabule ngalokho osekuzuziwe. Ukuphila kuba mnandi kakhulu lapho umuntu ezivumela ukuba ngumuntu, aphelele ngokungapheleli.

5. Ukuzama ukujabulisa wonke umuntu

Ukuzivumela ukuba ngumuntu kubuye kusho ukuvumela ukungathandwa ngabathile. Kufanelekile ukuba abe nomusa futhi acabangele imizwa yabanye abantu, kodwa futhi kumelwe aqine ekumeleleni lokho akufunayo. Ukuzama kakhulu ukuzama ukujabulisa wonke umuntu ngeke kuholele emphumeleni oyifunayo, ngoba “wonke umuntu akanakujabulisa.”

6. Imibono yabanye

Uma umuntu egxila kakhulu kulokho omunye angase akucabange, kungenzeka ukuthi uchitha isikhathi esiningi engqondweni yakhe kokuthile okungafanele kubaluleke kakhulu. Ezinye izinqumo zidinga ukucabangela imibono yabanye, kodwa akufanele wamukele njalo lokho abanye abakucabangayo. Okubalulekile umbono womuntu ngaye ngokwakhe, ukuziphatha kwakhe, nezinqumo zakhe.

7. Qhubeka nezitayela

Isifiso esiqhubekayo sokuthola konke okusemfashinini singashaywa indiva. Umuntu akufanele acabange kakhulu ngakho, ngoba ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ubani onendaba uma othile engayiphathi ifoni yakamuva, eshayela imoto ewubukhazikhazi kakhulu, noma engumnikazi wewodilophu ophambili wemfashini. Izililo ziyafika zidlule. Impela kumnandi futhi kuyajabulisa, kodwa ukuhambisana nakho kungacindezela.

8. Zama ukuya kuyo yonke imicimbi yokuzijabulisa

Umuntu kufanele akhethe imicimbi ekhethekile emfanele noma athanda ukuzibandakanya kuyo. Kufanele ikhethe kakhulu. Akudingeki ukuthi umuntu aye kuyo yonke imicimbi yokuzijabulisa futhi akhethe ezobalulekile kuphela.

9. Ukunqoba ingxabano

Kuwukuhlakanipha ukugwema ingxabano eshukunyiswa ukunqoba omunye kuze kufike eqophelweni lokulahlekelwa ubungane noma ukushisa amabhuloho. Umuntu angase avele avumele izinto ezingabalulekile zihambe, ikakhulukazi njengoba zingeke zisho lutho ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, futhi angase angazikhumbuli nhlobo.

10. Ikusasa

Ukukhathazeka ngekusasa kuyinto evamile ngokuphelele, futhi kulungile ukuba nohlelo olujwayelekile kanye nemigomo okumele usebenzele kuyo, kodwa “akukhiqizi” ukukhathazeka ngokweqile ngekusasa futhi uzincishe injabulo yamanje.

Izibikezelo ze-horoscope zika-Maguy Farah zonyaka ka-2023