Uziphindiselela kanjani isithandwa sakho esiyimbuka?

Enye yezinto edala kakhulu ubuhlungu wuthando lomuntu nokunamathela kuye kuze kufike ezingeni lokuluthwa bese behlukana naye, pho kungaba njani uma imbangela yokuhlukana kuwukukhaphela?

Uzozizwa unesizungu, intukuthelo, ukushaqeka, ukuzinikela, isifiso sakho sokungakholwa, ukudelela, ukuthanda kanye nenzondo ... kanye nemizwa eminingi ephikisanayo ngesikhathi esisodwa Sakhetha wena ukuthi ngingubani uSalwa:

1- Ukuqiniseka ngokugcwele ukuthi isinqumo sakho sokumlahla kuyisinqumo esifanele, ngakho-ke ungalindi isikhashana ukuthi abuyele kuwe ngesikhathi ezisola futhi enxusa ngaphansi kwezinyawo zakho, uma lokho kungenzeka, kodwa ziqinisekise ukuthi ukulahla okokugcina, uzombangela ukushaqeka okungalindelekile.

2- Ukunakekela ukubukeka kwakho kungesinye sezinyathelo ezibalulekile ezizokubuyisela amandla futhi kumenze amangale. Ekuqaleni kokuhlukana nobabili nisacabanga ukuthi omunye umuntu uyimpahla yakhe, nanoma yikuphi ukuzi- isithakazelo kufanele sibe kuye, ngakho-ke okulindelwe yimvelo kuye ukuthi emva kokuhlukana uzozinaka futhi ube lusizi, ngakho-ke Mazise ukuthi usuhle kakhulu emva kokuhlukana kwakho naye futhi ukuthi yikhasi elidatshulwe emdala. incwadi.

3- Gwema ngokuphelele ukusebenzisa izinkundla zokuxhumana ukuze ukhulume naye ngemicabango yakho, njengokungathi umthumelela imiyalezo efana nemisho edabukisayo nemisho eveza isimo sakho naye, emenza azizwe enamandla futhi ekhululekile.

4- Ungayihoxisi imihlangano nabangani bakho, ngokuphambene nalokho, yenza okwengeziwe ngale mihlangano futhi ubabonise isithombe esihle kakhulu sokuzinakekela futhi ukhulume ngezinsuku zakho ezimatasa zemisebenzi, kodwa ungasho lutho ngakho noma ukhulume. ngawe noma indaba yokuhlukana kwenu, futhi uma lokho kwenzeka, ungaba mfushane empendulweni Futhi kufana nokuthi awunandaba

5- Uma uhlangana naye ndawana thize, kumele uhlakaniphe ukwazi ukukhombisa imizwa yokunganaki ebusweni bakho, kumele umvumele ezwe ukuthi ukhohlwe ukubukeka kwakhe noma sengathi uke wambona lo muntu, kodwa uyakwenza. ungazi ukuthi kuphi, uzoqaphela ebusweni bakhe izimpawu zokucasuka noma ukuhoxa kwakhe ngokushesha endaweni .

6- Ukuba khona komunye umuntu wesifazane empilweni yakhe kungakwenza ucabange ukuthi noma yini oyenzayo ngeke imkhathaze, ukuthi ukucabanga akulungile, imbuka aliziboni njengembuka, kodwa lizibona lingumuntu wesifazane futhi likhona. ilungelo lobudlelwane obuningi futhi ukholelwa ukuthi ukuhlukana kwakhe kubangela usizi, ngakho-ke ngeke akhohlwe intombazane emnika Isifundo futhi amenze azizwe engumuntu onganakiwe ogama lakhe likhona nokungabi khona akusizi ngalutho.