Sibugcina kanjani ubusha baphakade?

Ubusha abugcini ngeminyaka ethile, kodwa ungaba mncane eminyakeni engamashumi ayisishiyagalombili futhi ube mdala lapho usuneminyaka engamashumi amabili, ukuguga kuwukuziphatha okuveza ukuzinikela kanye nezinsuku ezimweni nezigigaba nokulahlekelwa inhloso yokuphila komuntu.

Ukuze ulondoloze ubusha obuhlala njalo, kufanele ugweme kuphela amasiko nemikhuba yokuguga, efakwe kulolu hlu:
Ukuthukuthela okuhlosiwe kanye nokucutshungulwa kwezinto ezingenamsebenzi
Ukugxekwa kwazo zonke izifundo, izeluleko noma ukucaciswa okujikisayo ngokujulile "Kungani uphikisana nami" noma ungizondani!! Ukholelwa ukuthi amazulu azungeza yena kanye naye.

Iseluleko esiqhubekayo.. umuntu onikeza izeluleko eziningi, ukugxeka nokulungisa unomuzwa wangaphakathi wokuzibona ephansi okumzwisa ubuhlungu... ubhekana naye ngokulungiswa okuningi

Ukukhononda nokunganeliseki, umuntu akufihla ngenxa yokuthanda izwe, abantu noma abanye. Ukukhononda nakho kuwumuzwa wangaphakathi wokukhashelwa nokunganeliseki
Ukuntula ukuguquguquka kwengqondo, ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo... okungukuthi, ukuqina emicabangweni nasekunyakazeni

Ukuhwaqabala, ukudangala, ukudabuka ngesikhathi esedlule, nokulahlekelwa isikhathi samanje. Ukwesaba ikusasa elingaziwa kanye nesikhathi esidlule esilahlekile.
Ukungabi nomdlandla, ukuthatheka, ukulangazelela, ukuhlela kanye nesifiso sokuvelela
Ukucula izinkazimulo zakudala nokunyundela ezizukulwaneni nasezizukulwaneni ezizayo. Abantu abasha nsuku zonke bahle kakhulu kunayizolo

Ukunensa ekuthathweni kwezinqumo, ukuhlehlisa, ukuhlehlisa, ukunqwabelana, izitokwe eziningi zezingubo nezinkumbulo ukuvala ukushoda.
Isidingo esiqhubekayo sokuqinisekiswa nokuncika kwabanye kanye nokuthola ukunakwa kwabo, noma ngabe kuyisifo, ukuhlupheka nezinkinga kanye nokwenza
Ubuxhwanguxhwangu, ukubambelela efazweni, elikhona nelizuziwe.
Umncane kunawe ngosuku, angase abe oqondayo ngaphezu kwakho ngonyaka, futhi omdala kunawe ngonyaka, angase abe nokuqonda ngaphezu kwakho ngeminyaka eyinkulungwane..Akukho lutho oluhlangene nobudala kwisayensi umngane wakho, zonke izinsuku esiziphilayo ziyisipho esivela kuNkulunkulu, ungabeki iminyaka yakho ilinde ukufa kwakho, akekho owaziyo, mhlawumbe uNkulunkulu Lesi sikhathi siphethe izinsuku ezinhle kakhulu zokuphila kwakho.

Kuhlelwe ngu

URyan Sheikh Mohammed