1- Ukubuka ithelevishini amahora amade, ikakhulukazi iziteshi ezithatha uhlobo lwezingoma nomculo onomsindo, kwenza umntwana abe umamukeli ongenzi lutho othanda umculo nokunyakaza kuphela futhi akumenzi ukuthi aqale ukukhuluma.

2- Ukuphindaphinda amagama angalungile ashiwo ingane ungawalungisi kwenza ingane izwe amagama angalungile kaningi futhi ilokhu iwaphindaphinda ngephutha.

3- Ukungayinaki indaba yokuzwa, njengoba kunezimpawu ezisixwayisa ngokuba khona kwenkinga yokuzwa, njengokusondela kumuntu okhulumayo noma ukubuka ukunyakaza kwezindebe zakhe aze abone inkulumo noma ukungaphenduli kwakhe. lapho simbiza sivela ekamelweni lesibili okwenza umntwana alahlekelwe imisindo eminingi futhi angayiqondi ngokugcwele inkulumo.

4- Ukungaxoxi nengane kusukela ezinyangeni zokuqala, ecabanga ukuthi akawaqondi amagama ethu, kwenza ingane ingabi namagama futhi ingagcini ukukhishwa kolimi okwanele ukuqala ukukhuluma ngonyaka owodwa.

5- Hhayi ukumhlanganisa nezingane zangaphandle, ngenxa yokumesaba, ikakhulukazi lapho zingekho izingane zakini noma izihlobo ezenza ingane ihoxise futhi ingafuni ukukhuluma.

6- Ukwethula ulimi olungaphezu kolulodwa enganeni ngokungahleliwe, ngokungajwayelekile futhi isencane kakhulu, okwenza ingane ihlakazeke phakathi kwezilimi futhi ingakwazi ukwakha uhlelo olwanele lwezilimi nemithetho ezwakalayo yolimi ngalunye ngokwehlukana.

7- Ukutotoswa ngokweqile kwengane nokuphendula izicelo zayo ngokumane ibhekisele kuzo kumenza ancike, ngisho nangamazwi akhe, akudingekile ukuba acabange noma abambe ngekhanda amagama ezidingo zakhe eziyisisekelo.

8- Ukungazisho amagama izinto azibona mihla namalanga (okulengayo, ibhulukwe, isitulo, njll...) kwenza isilulumagama sengane sibe sibi kakhulu futhi sigcine kwamanye amagama.

Esinye sezincomo ezibaluleke kakhulu ukufundela izingane zethu izindaba nokwakha inkhulumomphendvulwano kusukela zisencane, nokunikeza imisho ephelele, elula necacile ukuze ingane iqonde futhi izuze inkulumo ngendlela efanele.

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