Ubhekana kanjani nomuntu ongaqondi?

Ingabe ukuqonda nomuntu ongaqondi akunakwenzeka?

Yebo, cha, uma sithi ngomuntu akaqondi, kuyinkulumo kodwa ingelona iqiniso ngomqondo wayo ongokoqobo, ngakho sisho umuntu ongaqondi ukuthi unobuthakathaka ekucabangeni nasekuhluleleni okunengqondo. Lokhu kungena kuncane bese uzama ukubhekana nakho.

Ungahluleli ubuwula ngaphambi kokuqinisekisa

Njengoba u-Albert Einstein ake asho, “Wonke umuntu uhlakaniphile, kodwa uma wehlulela inhlanzi ngekhono layo lokukhwela esihlahleni, uzophila impilo yakho yonke ucabanga ukuthi iyisiphukuphuku.” Lokhu kusho ukuthi iqiniso lokuthi umuntu esibhekene naye. akasona isilima ngempela kufanele kubhekwe.Nakuba engase abe isimungulu endaweni noma ezimbili olindele ukuthi ahlakaniphe, yeka ukukholelwa ukuthi iyodwa kuphela indlela yokuchaza ukuhlakanipha nobuwula, futhi uzoqala ukubona. ukuthi abantu banekhono kakhulu kunalokho obukucabanga.

ukubekezela 

Mhlawumbe angase avuse izinzwa zabanye ngobuwula bakhe, ukuzethemba kwakhe ngokungafanele, ukuphikelela emibonweni yakhe namazwi akhe, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi abonakala ewubuwula noma ehlekisa kangakanani, nokwehluleka kwakhe ukubona iqiniso lakhe, ikakhulukazi uma kufanele ubambisane naye. naye njengozakwethu womsebenzi noma ofundayo.Ezakhini zofuzo ezingcono noma wakhulela endaweni futhi wathola impatho engcono nokukhuliswa angazange akuthole futhi ayengakwazi ebuncaneni bakhe, yiba mnene futhi ubekezele ekusebenzelaneni naye wenze indalo yakho kangcono kunokuzehlisela ezingeni elingashoni lenzondo noma izinsolo noma uzama ukufanisa ubuwula bakhe nobuwula ngoba uzokudlula ngomehluko Experience .

ukuqonda

Yiba oqondayo futhi ube mnene phakathi nokusebenzelana kwakho naye futhi uqonde umqondo wokuthi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi wenzani futhi wenza umzamo ngeke ushintshe, ukuvuma lelo qiniso kuyokuholela esimweni sokuqaphela iqiniso futhi udlulele esigabeni sokubhekana nakho. , zama ukumqonda futhi umbonise ukuthi ukuqonda ukuthi usezingeni elifanayo futhi ungazami ukumbonisa ukuthi uyisiphukuphuku Futhi ukuthi uhlakaniphe kunaye ngoba akasoze wakubona futhi akasoze avuma, futhi akukho lutho oluzokwenza. umphumela walokho ngaphandle kokuthi wakha udonga lokungezwani phakathi kwakho naye.

Ebuka ngombono wakhe 

Bheka izindaba ngombono wakhe, isibonelo, uma wakhulela endaweni egcina imvelo, kanti wena ukhulele endaweni evulekile, ngeke ubone ukuhlangana kanye nokuhlangana kuzo zonke izindaba.

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