Amakhono enza wonke umuntu avumelane nawe

Kuyadingeka ukuthi ngamunye wethu abe namakhono okuxhumana nabantu kanye nobuciko bokukholisa.Lapho sihlala sisebenzisana nabantu, kufanele sikwazi ukufinyelela emiqondweni yabo futhi sazi ukuthi singakukhuluma kanjani lokho esifuna ukukusho ngendlela efanele futhi ekholisayo ukuthi. kwenza omunye umuntu avumelane nathi Yimaphi la makhono?

Ukwazi imvelo yelinye iqembu 

Ikhono lakho lokukholisa abantu ngempumelelo lincike ekhonweni lakho lokwazi umuthi womunye umuntu kanye nokuba nolwazi olwanele ngabantu abaseduze kwakho.Ukufunda ubuntu balabo abaseduze kwakho kuyisiqalo esingcono kakhulu sokuthola ubuciko bokukholisa.

izindaba 

Izindaba zinamandla okuthonya nokuba nomthelela kubantu.Abantu banentshisekelo enkulu ekukhulumeni lapho bezwa izindaba kunokuzwa amaqiniso nezibalo.Khombisa umbono wakho kubantu ngezindaba; Kubenza bakuqonde kangcono.

Ikhono lokuxazulula izinkinga 

Abantu bahlale befuna abantu abangaxazulula izinkinga.Uma usunaleli khono, ngezindlela ezingcono kakhulu nezisombululo eziphuma enkingeni, abantu bazokuhlonipha ngokuzenzakalelayo futhi kulokhu kuzoba lula ukubakholisa.

Ukuziqinisekisa 

Ukuzethemba kuyisidingo ngaphambi kokuncenga.Akekho oyoba nendaba nemibono noma imibono yakho uma ebona ukuthi awuzethembi.Uma uzethemba; Umsebenzi wokuncenga uzoba lula, futhi uzofinyelela lokho okufunayo kwabanye.

ukulalela 

Abalaleli abahle bangabantu abanethonya kakhulu eduze kwabo.Ukunakekela lokho abantu abakushoyo kwenza bakuthande futhi bakuthande ukubhekana nawe. Imvelo yabantu ibenza babonge umuntu onendaba nezinkinga zabo ngisho noma ngokulalela kuphela, futhi lokhu kwenza kube lula ukunqoba ukwethenjwa kwabo futhi ngaleyo ndlela bakholise ngalokho okufunayo.

ubuntu 

Kufanele ube ngumuntu, futhi uqonde ubuhlungu nemizwa yabanye abaseduze kwakho, futhi ubeke izaba ngabo ngangokunokwenzeka.Umuntu ongenalo izinga eliphezulu lobuntu ngeke akwazi ukukholisa noma ubani nganoma yini.

Ezinye izihloko:

Ubhekana kanjani nomamezala wakho onomona?

Yini eyenza ingane yakho ibe umuntu ozicabangela yona yedwa?

Ubhekana kanjani nabalingiswa abangaqondakali?

Kunini lapho abantu bethi usezingeni eliphezulu?

Ubhekana kanjani nomuntu ongenangqondo?

Ingabe uthando lungaphenduka lube umlutha

Ulugwema kanjani ulaka lwendoda enomona?

Lapho abantu sebelutheka kuwe futhi benamathela kuwe?

Ubhekana kanjani nobuntu bosomathuba?