Isimilo sokuthandana

Umbono wokuqala ungenye yezinto eziyisisekelo ezibaluleke kakhulu zokuthandana. Umbono wokuqala ungahlala, unyamalale, noma ushintshe phakathi kwamasekhondi angu-10 wokuhlangana okokuqala, futhi ngaleyo ndlela ubudlelwano noma umsebenzi ungase uqale noma uphele ngokuphelele. Ukwazi kanye ukusebenzelana nabanye kudinga ubuhlakani obusheshayo kanye nokugxilisa ingqondo okuphelele ukuze wenze umbono omuhle ngawe.

Uma kunguwe owethula izinhlangothi zombili komunye nomunye, kufanele ugcine imithetho eyisisekelo yokuhambisa:
Ukwethula omncane kumuntu omdala, ukwethula owesilisa kowesifazane, ukwazisa ophansi kophakeme, ongenabizo konesihloko...
Ungasebenzisi abantu ngamagama abo okuqala kuphela, kodwa kufanele usho amagama abo aphelele nesihloko (Udokotela, Unjiniyela, Inxusa...)

Ungasebenzisi igama elithi “umngane wami” lapho wethula omunye wabangane bakho komunye umuntu ukuze ungalimazi imizwa yomunye umuntu, njengoba engaseyena umngane wakho.
Kodwa-ke, uma kunguwe okufanele uzethule futhi kungekho muntu okwaziyo, kufanele uzethule ngegama lakho eliphelele futhi ngaphandle kwesihloko, ngaphandle uma usendaweni yobuchwepheshe edinga ukusho umsebenzi wakho, lapho uzethula khona. ngegama lakho eliphelele nesihloko sakho.

Uma umema abantu abathile abangajwayelene nabo ngaphambili, kufanele wazi izinga lokufanelana kwabo, ngoba ukwazana kamuva kuholela ekusebenzeni ngokubambisana, ubungane, noma umshado...noma ukungakwazi kwabo ukusebenzelana bodwa. unomthwalo wemfanelo wemiphumela yokwazana.Unesibopho sokuhlanganisa abantu futhi uhloniphe izimiso zesimemo.

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