Isici esivelele kakhulu somlingiswa ongaqondakali ukuthi ungamazwi ambalwa kakhulu.Noma ubani onalo mlingiswa ukhuluma kuphela lokho okushiwoyo nokwenzayo, futhi abantu abakwazi ukukhipha imfihlo noma ukuvuma izono kuye.

Ubuntu obuyimfihlakalo bunamandla aphezulu okubuka avumela ukuthi abambe imininingwane emincane kakhulu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ngamehlo noma izindlebe.

Okuhlukanisa lo mlingiswa ukukhetha kwakhe imibala emnyama, ikakhulukazi emnyama, engutsheni nayo yonke impahla yakhe nezinye izinto.

Umlingiswa ongaqondakali uyaphikisana ekuziphatheni nasekuziphatheni kwakhe, okuwunikeza ukucwebezela kwemfihlakalo nakakhulu.Ukuphikisana kulo mlingiswa kuphakamisa imibuzo nokukhathazeka phakathi kwabanye abantu ngaphandle kwencazelo.

Esinye sezici ezibonakala ngalo mlingiswa ukungabaza nokungathembani kukho konke, kungaba emibonweni, ezehlakalweni noma kubantu.Lo mlingiswa wakha imibono nezinkolelo zakhe ngokusekelwe esimisweni esisodwa, esiwukungakholelwa noma yini ngokuphelele 100%, uhlala ebeka konke amathuba okukhulunywa ngawo.

Lokhu kusho ukufihla nokucindezela imizwa nokungayivezi Umphefumulo ugcwele izinkathazo, izinkinga, injabulo kanye nenjabulo “noma yini ewela ngaphakathi kohlaka lwemizwa.”

Lo mlingiswa ugcina imizwa yakhe kuyena, ngisho nemizwa yakhe enamandla (efana nokutuswa nothando) engavamile ukushiwo...noma engashiwo nhlobo.