Ukuqinisa kanjani ukuzethemba kwakho?

 Lobo buntu buyazethemba ezinyathelweni zabo, obunyakazisa izindawo ngaphansi kwezinyawo zabo, futhi wonke umuntu uphendukela kubo njengabatusayo.Ingabe yindlovukazi evela kuNkulunkulu uMninimandla onke, noma kuwumphumela wokuqeqeshwa okuqhubekayo?Sonke siya kulobu buntu obunamandla obuzimele, futhi mhlawumbe into egqame kakhulu eholela ekutheni umuntu afinyelele imigomo yakhe ubuntu bakhe obuqinile nokuzethemba Lapho umuntu ezithemba yena namakhono akhe, nakanjani uzofinyelela lokho akufunayo ngisho nangemva kwesikhashana, futhi ngokuvamile ukulahlekelwa ukuzethemba kuyashesha. kunokuphinde ukuzuze, ngakho kusho ukuthini ukuzethemba? Futhi yini eholela ekulahlekelweni kwayo? Ingaphinda ilandwe kanjani?

Ukuzethemba kuchazwa ngokuthi umuzwa womuntu ngaye uqobo kanye nokubaluleka kwakhe, ukuhumusha lo muzwa ekuhambeni kwakhe, izenzo, namazwi ngaphezu kwendlela yakhe yokusebenzelana nabanye, lapho ukuzethemba kwakhe kuphakeme, lokhu kuzobonakala ukuziphatha kwakhe ngokwemvelo kakhulu nalabo abamzungezile nokunganaki kwakhe noma yini; Ngoba uyazi ukuthi kufanele aye kuphi futhi ahambe kanjani, kuyilapho ukungabi nalo mqondo kumenza ahlale enomuzwa wokuthi ubhekiwe futhi uhlala ekhathazekile futhi esaba.

Yiziphi izimbangela zokungazethembi?

Ukunikeza izinto ezinkulu kunosayizi wazo kanye ne-Tweelha.

Uhlale unomuzwa wokuthi abantu abaseduze kwakho bayakubuka futhi baqaphe ukunyakaza kwakho.

Ukungakwazi ukubhekana nabanye, ikakhulukazi uma uzwa ukwesaba nokukhathazeka nganoma yisiphi isenzo sakho.

Umuzwa oqhubekayo wokuthi ungumuntu obuthakathaka futhi ulandela abanye, njengokungakwazi kwakho ukwenza isinqumo ezindabeni ezilula kakhulu.

Ngeshwa, umuzwa wazo zonke lezi zizathu nokunye uphenduka ube ngokoqobo, ukuze uhunyushwe eqinisweni elibizwa ngokuthi ukuntula ukuzethemba, futhi lezi zizathu zikhishwa ngenxa yokwehluleka esihlokweni esithile esifana nokufunda noma umsebenzi kanye nokuchayeka okulandelayo. ukugxekwa okunzima nokulimazayo komndeni nabangane, ngaphandle kokuziqhathanisa nabanye abavela Ngamakhono namathuba, ngaphezu kokungathembela kwabanye ezindabeni ezilula njengabazali, ngokwesibonelo, futhi ungakuniki ithuba lokufakazela. ngokwakho, konke lokhu kuholela ekulahlekelweni ukuzethemba.

Isinyathelo esibaluleke kakhulu ukuqinisa ukuzethemba kwakho, kanjani?

Ake sikubonise namuhla izinyathelo ezibaluleke kakhulu zokuqinisa ukuzethemba.

Okokuqala, kufanele uhlale uzitusa, ngoba noma yimuphi umuntu ebusweni bale planethi unezici ezinhle ezimhlukanisayo kwabanye, gxila kulezi zici futhi usizakale ngazo ngendlela efanele ukuze ukwenze ube umuntu okhethekile, kodwa kufanele qaphela ungafinyeleli ezingeni lokuzikhukhumeza ukuze uzenze umuntu ongenalwazi futhi ongelutho.umbono wabanye abantu.

Zinakekele njalo, ikakhulukazi indlela obukeka ngayo.Ngokuvamile, lapho umuntu ebukeka kahle futhi ecocekile, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukugqoka noma isitayela sezinwele, uzizwa ekhululekile futhi anelisekile ngaphakathi, futhi awudingi izinto eziyinkimbinkimbi ukuze ubukeke ebuhleni, ngoba ubuhle bungaphakathi. ubulula.

Zama ukwakha ubungane obuhlukile, njengoba bukusiza ukuthi uxubane futhi ufunde ngemibono eyahlukene futhi uhlanganyele ezingxoxweni eziwusizo ezithuthukisa izinga lakho lengxoxo kanye nekhono lakho lokuhlangana nenani elikhulu labantu.

Yenza izinto ozithandayo kanye nemisebenzi oyithandayo, njengezemidlalo, isibonelo, ngaphezu kokuba nempilo futhi inenzuzo emzimbeni wakho, iphinde ikusize ulahle amandla angalungile ngaphakathi kwakho. Ngaso sonke isikhathi zama izinto ezintsha nezinto, ukubulala okujwayelekile futhi kususe ubuhle bezinto ezifihliwe ngaphakathi.